how come nothing materializes???????

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Hi Rani

 

I'm not responding astrologically, just from experience as another single

person.

 

You have to keep going.

 

3 dates is nothing. Keep going.

 

And what is this "from another caste". I respect this when it's real, but I

have my serious doubts that it is in this case.

 

Do you really understand what "Varna" or "Caste" really is? It's one's

overall nature, as seen in their life, and as seen in their chart.

 

It is NOT the "caste" of their parents. You cannot be "born into" a caste.

 

Both Sri Krishna, and Sri Caitanya, and Hari Das Thakur, all great Hindus,

right?, all say that one must be judged by his Gunas and Karmas. That is

how you determine caste. Or, you can judge it from a Horoscope, but you

must be VERY GOOD to do that properly. It is NOT easy.

 

So do not avoid a marriage because of that so called Caste system still

rampant in India which is the one you are born into.

 

True, your parents make up your DNA, but a poets son may end up as a

butcher, and vice versa.

 

Unless there's some extraneous reason for following that which I'm not aware

of (which there may be as I'm American), well, drop following it, as it's

meaningless, in my humble opinion (the "by birth" caste system).

 

And 21 is young. You have plenty of time. You will make it, you will

marry, just keep going, and yes, don't go for way older, as you won't have

much in common.