[muruga] Possible Romance

October 27, 2002

Zam,

I wouldn't think she's mentally unstable although maybe a little on the

aggressive side from time to time. 6th lord of conflict, disputes is Mars and

it aspects the Ascendant. She's also running Mars-Venus now and Venus is

aspected by Mars natally. And that Mars is under Saturn's aspect at the moment

from Gemini. Could be more stress than usual for her.

Will get back to you on synastry.

Chris

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> Zamani Feelings <zfeelings2

> muruga

> [muruga] Possible Romance

> Sunday, October 27, 2002 11:09 AM

>

Hello everyone its Zamani .I need your assistance once again on a female that I

am SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING getting romantically involved with , possibly even

relocating to be with .I like this girl tremendously and we have been getting

along marvelously until recently.She just moved to Atlanta Georgia ( I live in

Philadelphia PA) and is expressing an interest in me moving there with her.I am

wondering how smart a move it might be now since as of late she has been acting

rather strangely and snapping on me alot (ANGRILY SO).I understand that she is

under a lot of stress, but I am also wondering if she doesnt have some mental

problems.Shes a brilliant girl but at times seems a little mentally unstable and

nasty..Shes a sweet person, shes been married before and she also suffered some

sexual abuse at the hands of her grandfather.Please take a look at her chart as

well as the synastry between us and let me know what you think.Im falling in

love with her , but im starting to wonder if it will be to my own detriment

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October 29, 2002

Zam,

I took a look at you and your paramour's charts. There are a few nice hits

there -- her 7L Jupiter conjunct your 1L Venus, your lagneshes are conjunct in

Virgo -- but not a whole lot. The one really potentially huge hit was that your

navamsha ruler Saturn 6Ar14 is exactly conjunct her navamsha ruler Mars 6 Ar21

-- only 7 minutes off! Maybe this is part of the deep attraction between you

two. Still I can't help but wonder if you're floating on the temporary bliss of

good sack time with her. She has the potential to be a dynamo there with the

close Mars-Pluto square (Mars in the 7th) and the near exact declinational

conjunction between Venus and Pluto. Those women can be like an addictive drug.

I checked out the ashtaka varga scores. One thing that caught my eye was that

she has a huge differential between her 1st house (39) and her 7th house (21).

I recall something Houck said about such 1-7 differences in Digital Astrology:

the people are usually like vampires that suck the energy from their partners.

She could be a user, or as you have said, she may have been used by others.

Either way, it's an area of concern.

So without any massive connections between your charts and these caveats I've

noted, I would resist moving down to Atlanta unless you wouldn't mind moving

anyway. Wait and see if your feelings for her hold as the weeks pass. And

definitely don't feel cowed by any ultimatums should there be any. Maybe your

new Mercury bhuktie in Dec will help you decide with a clearer head. Until then,

maybe arrange a couple of weekends down there with her to see how things are

developing.