High Kutas Yet Problems(incl. jpeg)

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Lokesh mentioned having a high score with his bride, but after only 5

months, they are having bad times.

 

I want to tell that I have extremely high Kuta points with a lady

friend, and we get along very well in many ways, but also, we fight like

crazy and cannot be around each other long.

 

In our case, it's clear in the charts.

 

I have seen Indian astrologers do too much of what Hari said. They look

at something with total faith and pronounce. Wrong. I don't know how

they have not the conscience to rethink their ways. So many Indians

suffer in bad marriages they cannot get out of, just like in old

catholic Ireland, where divorce was ILLEGAL just like India kinda...

 

Luckily in the West, it's become truly free.

 

So, with all that said, Lokesh, it could be that the original

astrologers didn't do a good deep job. There should be talk talk talk

and they should meet you and so on. It's all done too quickly.

 

Another thing: It's hard to find a partner, think hard before quitting.

Often, it is one of you or both of you doing verbal and other behaviors

which will modify with knowledge and experience. Often young people are

too fiery and try to convince each other so much. I suggest you let each

other air out plenty if it's fighting. If it's sex, seek help. Talk

about the real problems fully to loving older people. That's helpful. I

know this isn't astrology, but it's real, and from my heart. Most

importantly, talk about it, the real actual problems, to a number of

good people you know who are older, but those who have had lots of years

of marriage and are NOT sannyas or renounced in any way. You do no need

their advice. Seek advice from woman. They can tell you how to handle a

woman. Find a truth telling older woman who had children and raised a

family, a happy woman, who is a bit round and has jowels, is good

looking but not sleek, must be a bit roundish, presence of Jupiter, find

a happy older woman like this, and get her to look at your wife, and ask

her opinion, and better, both of you speak to her, and have your wife do

same with older nice man about you. In this way gradually find out

what's going on. You may have an issue that is hurting her, and if you

were told correctly, you might change. Or vice versa. The elders who

have been married are the best help.

 

Young people have many illusions and ego problems to still prove to

themselves, the world, their spouse, and so on. Then they put these onto

each other. Later, they regret it. This is a not well known but widely

true hidden fact. Many say they would not have split had they known then

what they know now, 10 or 20 years later, in sorrow, so be careful.

 

Try to access that wisdom. It's out there but it has to be pulled out of

the elders with sincere pleas containing truth. Be ready to transform.

And welcome to marriage.

 

But of course, I know nothing of the facts you are experiencing, so I am

offering this, though it may not apply. Maybe it will benefit someone.

 

I had an arranged marriage for 14 years. We have 50%, or 18 points. Not

very good. But we got along great, and had two great kids, and it was

very peaceful and nice, but I was not really happy. It was boring and I

had to bend to meet her mind, which I did alot, though it wasn't hard. I

divorced and sought better, found an 86%, and suffered like crazy,

really really badly. Had I known, I would not have divorced, but you

cannot know, and also, all that suffering has made me very strong, which

is always the benefit of suffering.

 

By the way, the first wife, her chart, matched mine better. Though the

Moon's were not as good, overall we were more similar. The second one,

much higher Kutas, but charts overall did not align as well. Plus she

has something in her chart which shows she will not make men feel happy,

but rather, frightened, which happens. So I have come to feel that Kutas

work some, but overall chart alignment is important.

 

If someone has key placements on yours, these must be looked at. All the

alignments of Rasi to Navamsa and vice versa must be looked at. Malefic

lineups are not good, like Saturn on Moon, Rahu on Moon, etc.

 

 

The jpeg shows a feature from the coming GJ3 which shows the lineups

between two charts. You can drag and drog charts onto the picture areas

above. If you added their picture to their file, which is another easy

drag and drop, then it will show there. This feature, new, is very

useful, I feel. This is me and my daughter, by the way. Note the plus's

and minus's on the left, degrees sometimes shown (of orb) and little red

blue disks indicate closer lineups I think... check it out closely, it's

pretty cool.

 

 

 

 

With love and honesty,

 

 

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