Medical Quiz, Doriano

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Dear Wendy,

your idea, to spend the night time in the way of Einstein sounds well. Even

Hahnemann (the founder of homeopathy) slept every second night and worked

the other. I suggested the same some weeks ago to a lady, 60, suffering from

sleeplessness since 20 years. She wanted to give up her sleeping pills. I

told her about the possibility to help in a hospital, to be with the

suffering and those people, proned to death. She replied: " yes, this might

be a good idea" - and tried to make suicid; taking 60 sleeping pills some

days later. She has been saved. - What I want to say is the following: our

good advise is one thing, but the souls of our patients and those, suffering

lack of rest is another. In some cases it might be the right advice - in

other cases it might be a failure. In the case of Dorian`s wife, I have the

(unproven) hunch, that Daniela`s sleeplessness might be the reason of some

familary situation, not absolutely due to her parents but perhaps due to one

or two generations before.

I don`t know if the so called "Familienstellen", in english perhaps

"family-placing" and in italy " prendere posizione su una famiglia" is known

in other countries. The founder is Bert Hellinger, perhaps he and his method

are also known outside germany. The sense of his reflections is to find out

some hidden and outcasted family members. Perhaps someone died early, a

stillborn child or something other, being the secret of this family.

Hellinger tries to find out these persons, because a later living person

sometimes takes (unconsciously) the guilt to herself due to the love to his

or her family. After bringing these affairs " in the light", you can often

see how these deep involvements will disappear.

Regards Ilona