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gjlist, "Robert A. Koch" <rkoch@b...> wrote:

> Wendy,

>

 

Maybe

> its confusing to you, either because of lack of energy to research

what the

> classical statements suggest, or maybe it is just a matter of lack

of

> intelligence.

>

 

Om Amrtesvaryai Namah!!

 

Namaste dear ones on the list!!

 

i wonder if it is at all appropriate to address other list members in

such a way???

 

is it not possible to have our Jyotishi discussions, no matter how

strong, and full of disagreements, without descending to personal

lambasting? Perhaps we need to read and edit our letters before we

send them on to the list....we should not be in the business of

hurting other people's feelings with comments on intelligence and so

on...that goes a bit too far.

 

it would have been fine to leave the sentence closed just before that

last unnecessary comment.

 

if we DO make such comments about each other, we can be sure that this

will undermine any value our philosophical and jyotisha comments might

have had for the audience...what is more important here...spreading

the knowledge of Jyotish, despite our disagreements and different

view-points, or is our own ego more important than this knowledge?

if we HAVE to be right, then we have closed the door ourselves on

learning anything new, and of value...

 

better to always consider oneself a 'beginner' and treat everyone with

humility...we never know if that person masquerading as a 'fool' might

not really be a mahatma, just testing us....and by going into

humility, we are always open to learning more. When we admit that we

do not know much and that really we ARE just beginners, then the

flower of our hearts can open, in humility, and waft forth its perfume

of Divine Love over all...if we wish to lock up our hearts in the jail

of the ego's insistence on being right, WE will only be the losers,

not anyone else!!!

 

i think that this list has no trouble with disagreements over the

various doctrines, so much as "ego" troubles between the various

proponents of those doctrines...possibly we should read each other's

letters with a little less defensiveness, and a little more

humility...perhaps we should see each other Jyotishi as a ray of

light, illuminating a particular portion of the universe...it is not

the same everywhere, and what works in one place for one person may

not work for another...intelligence has nothing to do with it...it may

just be "propensity" or inclination...a "feeling" part of the mind...

 

i have the feeling that we could argue over the precise definitions of

the colour yellow...and would be equally in the dark as to any real

progress if the egos take over..."MY way or the Highway" attitudes

will only get us into another war...

 

if we do not have peace in our own hearts, how can we ever expect to

bring peace into this world?

 

i love to read these long arguments over the various aspects of

Jyotish, but i DO NOT love to read the personal diatribes, when they

slip out...self-censorship is the best in this department...we can

write a letter full of our self-defensive feelings, and then we can go

away for awhile...then come back and reread and edit that letter,

carefully removing any personally negative comments...and trying to

bring in a positive, uplifting, educational feeling rather than a

warlike, depressing defensive one.

 

if we wish others to treat us well, we must make the first step!

 

In the Divine Mother's Love,

and in Her Service,

this child

of Hers,

bows

again and again

most humbly

to his

beloved

sisters and brothers,

the Jyotishis

on this list!!

praying

urgently for

peace

and

Divine Love

between

them.

 

as ever,

your own self,

 

visvanathan

 

Om Amrtesvaryai Namah!!

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Dear Visvanathan,

 

At 08:34 PM 5/1/01 +0000, you wrote:

>gjlist, "Robert A. Koch" <rkoch@b...> wrote:

> > Wendy,

> >

>

> Maybe

> > its confusing to you, either because of lack of energy to research

>what the

> > classical statements suggest, or maybe it is just a matter of lack

>of

> > intelligence.

> >

>

>Om Amrtesvaryai Namah!!

>

>Namaste dear ones on the list!!

>

>i wonder if it is at all appropriate to address other list members in

>such a way???

>

>is it not possible to have our Jyotishi discussions, no matter how

>strong, and full of disagreements, without descending to personal

>lambasting? Perhaps we need to read and edit our letters before we

>send them on to the list....we should not be in the business of

>hurting other people's feelings with comments on intelligence and so

>on...that goes a bit too far.

 

You are right, and I should not have spoken in such a tone. I apologize to

Wendy for it.

 

Best wishes,

Robert

 

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Robert A. Koch, Vedic Astrologer

760 NW Broken Arrow Rd.

Bend, OR. 97701-9037

Phone: 541-318-0248

visit <http://www.robertkoch.com> or e-mail

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