Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Vanakkam Cyraji, Normally we also do not encourage personal problems to be discussed at length publicly but in your case as in the case of a few other beloved friends, we have made exceptions. Very delighted to know you understand what I was getting at and most happy to hear that Alanji has given you good advice too (thanks Alanji..) Now be a good girl & listen to your most humble servant Simone: ------------------------------- Fret not, dry your tears, put on some glad rags, have a raving party (drink the drink but do not let the drink consume you). Enjoy the trip to India, have a dip in Maa Ganga if you get a chance, take in the sights, enjoy the warmth and great energies of the Motherland, recharge your batteries and return home rested and rejuvenated. Having or forcing someone's physical being to be with us while their heart is elsewhere, is called "controlling". Reasoning with them only further alienates them. If they have no conscience regarding yourself and your kids, it is their great loss, not yours. Some people change without rhyme or reason. Sometimes there are no immediate answers but things always come out in the wash later. There is no point in trying to understand the nuts and bolts, the "why's", "how's" or "what's", at least not right now at this stage. You would only deplete your own prana further. Fully empathise and understand about your big loving heart and how much you can give. But first please "give to yourself, love yourself, nurture yourself and your kids", then others. The key to unlocking answers about "need someone to shower it on" will come into your hand when the right time comes. There is a time for everything in life. Each has its season. Time heals, time unfolds and God provides although differently from what we may expect. Yes please be a good girl and let go..... Chuck it all out and get a move on. Do not be afraid to lose sight of the shore or new horizons will never be discovered. You are far too worthy and too good to remain in limbo or stagnate or allow another to do this to you. Pick up the pieces and begin afresh. This is easy to say but hard to do but please perservere. You will rise like the phoenix from the ashes very gloriously. And never look back. Wishing you serenity, inner harmony and joyous times ahead, Much love Simone , Cyra Kanga <crkanga> wrote: > Thanks Simoneji for your most wonderful and thought > provoking letter. > Although my eyes filled up with tears, I really do > understand what you are saying. > Yes I have decided to let go as the best sentence in > your letter made a lot of sense. You cannot force > someone to be with you physically when their haert is > somewhere else. There is no point in that and love > that is forced and not from my heart is not love at > all. > I was only hoping that somehow he would be guided to > do the correct thing. It seems a madness has descended > on him. > Who knows what is in store. All I know is that I have > a tremendous amount of love to give and a lot of care > in my heart. I need someone to shower it on. > Alanji has also written something on the same lines as > you. Its time to let go and see what emerges. Its time > for a different direction. > God bless you and be happy and peaceful. > Cyra. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Thank you, thank you thankyou dear Simoneji. I will think of you while partying and taking that dip in the Ganga. Bless you. Cyra --- Simone <syzenith wrote: > Vanakkam Cyraji, > > Normally we also do not encourage personal problems > to be discussed > at length publicly but in your case as in the case > of a few other > beloved friends, we have made exceptions. > > Very delighted to know you understand what I was > getting at and most > happy to hear that Alanji has given you good advice > too (thanks > Alanji..) > > Now be a good girl & listen to your most humble > servant Simone: > ------------------------------- > Fret not, dry your tears, put on some glad rags, > have a raving party > (drink the drink but do not let the drink consume > you). Enjoy the > trip to India, have a dip in Maa Ganga if you get a > chance, take in > the sights, enjoy the warmth and great energies of > the Motherland, > recharge your batteries and return home rested and > rejuvenated. > > Having or forcing someone's physical being to be > with us while their > heart is elsewhere, is called "controlling". > Reasoning with them > only further alienates them. If they have no > conscience regarding > yourself and your kids, it is their great loss, not > yours. Some > people change without rhyme or reason. Sometimes > there are no > immediate answers but things always come out in the > wash later. > There is no point in trying to understand the nuts > and bolts, > the "why's", "how's" or "what's", at least not right > now at this > stage. You would only deplete your own prana > further. > > Fully empathise and understand about your big loving > heart and how > much you can give. But first please "give to > yourself, love > yourself, nurture yourself and your kids", then > others. The key to > unlocking answers about "need someone to shower it > on" will come > into your hand when the right time comes. There is a > time for > everything in life. Each has its season. Time heals, > time unfolds > and God provides although differently from what we > may expect. > > Yes please be a good girl and let go..... Chuck it > all out and get a > move on. Do not be afraid to lose sight of the shore > or new horizons > will never be discovered. You are far too worthy and > too good to > remain in limbo or stagnate or allow another to do > this to you. Pick > up the pieces and begin afresh. This is easy to say > but hard to do > but please perservere. You will rise like the > phoenix from the ashes > very gloriously. And never look back. > > Wishing you serenity, inner harmony and joyous times > ahead, > Much love > Simone > > > , > Cyra Kanga > <crkanga> wrote: > > > Thanks Simoneji for your most wonderful and > thought > > provoking letter. > > Although my eyes filled up with tears, I really do > > understand what you are saying. > > Yes I have decided to let go as the best sentence > in > > your letter made a lot of sense. You cannot force > > someone to be with you physically when their haert > is > > somewhere else. There is no point in that and love > > that is forced and not from my heart is not love > at > > all. > > I was only hoping that somehow he would be guided > to > > do the correct thing. It seems a madness has > descended > > on him. > > Who knows what is in store. All I know is that I > have > > a tremendous amount of love to give and a lot of > care > > in my heart. I need someone to shower it on. > > Alanji has also written something on the same > lines as > > you. Its time to let go and see what emerges. Its > time > > for a different direction. > > God bless you and be happy and peaceful. > > Cyra. > > Small Business $15K Web Design Giveaway http://promotions./design_giveaway/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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