Rudraksha Mala /Cyra

February 15, 2004

Dear Cyra,

Namaste. Saddened about this news and my heart goes out to you; if

only I can reach across the oceans to give you some comforting

hugs. It is indeed a disquieting and challenging time for you. Am

sending up prayers for your relief and emotional comfort. May the

Gods guide you to the best possible solution that is right for you

and which will ensure your happiness in the long term. May I

mention further that relationships are much governed by the Laws of

Karma and Rnanubandhana.. Hence a Vashi Karan Yantra may or may not

work according what we desire of it but often brings what is Best

instead. Do you happen to also have a Gauri Shankar rudraksha bead

on your mala?

Generally the consensus to your questions in the last paragraph

is "no" if you ask most folks. I don't know about others' practices

but imvho, Brahmins observe very strict codes when it comes to

religious matters and holy items. It also depends on one's

background and tradition. Since I only follow what I perceive to be

my "God and Goddess", I humbly adhere to what is best and what

works. Please use your intuition and personal analysis in deciding

what to do. Imvho, there is no necessity to remove the mala before

attending to Mother Nature. Menses is also Mother Nature and nature

just has to take place through us mortal channels. In patriarchal

communities, women do as they are told by men. Again imvho, during

modern times when we are living in Kali Yuga, Maa is in control of

all things. When we honor Maa with sincere devotion, there is no

right or wrong. There just "is"..... Whether we consider something

to be 'wrong' or 'sinful' we have to take into consideration the

degree of aversion each individual feels bound or limited to.

Please gauge and decide according to what you personally feel is

right.

Most persons have an aversion to menstrual blood. Many temples in

India will not admit a menstruating woman for worship. There are

many households too, where wives are not allowed in the kitchen to

cook during those 'days of the month'. Nor are they permitted in

the puja room of course. However, at the gatherings of tantrikas,

aghoris and various traditions of Kali Maa devotees, they will

say "welcome" Sending you good wishes and happy blessings.

Jai Maa

Sy

, Cyra Kanga

<crkanga> wrote:

> Dear Sy,

> Thank you for the encouragement. My husband has filed

> for divorce and that is why I need him to change his

> mind before the date is finalized. There is the

> possible involvement of another woman. I am daily

> reciting the mantras 108 times (or more) and

> Vashikaran Yantra also I wear everyday around my neck

> in a chain. Thank you once again for giving me hope.

> Is it true that I should remove my Rudraksha mala when

> going to the toilet and during the 5-6 days of

> menstruation?

> Please advice and thank you once again.

> Om Namah Shivaya.

> Cyra

> --- syzenith <syzenith> wrote:

> > Dear Cyra,

> >

> > Just read your post and may I add two dimes' worth:

> > Please be patient and continue reciting the mantras.

> > Two friends of

> > mine initially started off just as you did. Within

> > 40 days to 90

> > days you'll see gradual improvements. When you're

> > meditating,

> > please try to clear all mundane thoughts from your

> > mind and

> > concentrate only on the mantras. One girl was

> > wearing gems and

> > rudraksha mala. Things seemed slow to change and

> > she felt they

> > didn't budge at all. However, when the changes came

> > in exactly 6

> > months in her case, her life improved considerably

> > and she was

> > amazed. She remembered how impatient she was during

> > the 'limbo

> > period' but feels the waiting was worth it. One of

> > them also used a

> > VashiKaran Yantra together with her mala. She

> > recited the mantras

> > everyday and also carried it in her handbag. Within

> > 2 months she got

> > a job, within 6 she was dating and then within 9

> > months, she met a

> > nice boy - they've continued to see each other and

> > their

> > relationship is getting stronger each day.

> >

> > Please have faith and don't give up. I am sure good

> > things and

> > great improvements will occur for you as well.

> > Sending you good

> > wishes.

> >

> > Om Namah Shivaya

> > Sy

> >

> > ,

> > Cyra Kanga

> > <crkanga> wrote:

> > > I have been wearing my rudraksha mala specially

> > made

> > > for me now for 21 days. There has been no

> > improvement

> > > in my situation so far. Is there still hope or if

> > the

> > > beads were going to be effective by now I would

> > have

> > > felt the difference. All I do is say the mantra

> > for

> > > each bead, holding the mala in my hand for 108

> > times

> > > every morning. Please advice me. Thank you.

> > > CK

> > > I am also wearing a pendant of Vashikaran Yantra

> > since

> > > one week.

> > >

> >

>

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February 15, 2004

Dear Cyra,

I really feel disturbed when I hear of such kind of separation... To share with

you my personal experience - the day I received my mala and started wearing

it... it so happened that I was taking rest in the afternoon; I was feeling

tired because of the day before and the night duty plus the morning pooja... I

heard my wife beating up my son of 10 and he cried out in pain which I could not

tolerate... know what? I went to my wife and gave her real slap which I

regretted a lot but I could not control myself....she started out and took some

material with her and started living elsewhere about 5 km away from me...along

with the children...BUT would you believe it that things changed within a week

and she seems to understans me better....my mala also has the Gauri-Shankar

bead... today I find that what happens happens for good...

I would first ask why is the divorce paper being filed? If he wants to let go

off you for someone else or is just an infatuation which he has which he may

regret later... if his mind is turned around will you two live happily? Forget

Vashikaran, etc. these are the black side of our path... if you are in India you

better call Mr Nilesh ... on his mobile. He will just need your family diety's

name... you can reach him on 022-32500423 else India Code (91)-22-32500423

(reliance mobile)... since he works with Cosmos Bank (call him around 1130 IST)

he may ask you to call later in the evening... but do call him and you would be

surprised.. maybe you would be posting messages on this site.. He will help you

as far as he can with his god gifted powers..because you are married (holy

union)...the other one is illegitimate... he does not take anything - remember

this. You can refer my name "Padhi". This is the only advise I can give you at

the moment...don't think of Nilesh or me too

much...because of persons like him..we believe that some Supreme being is

there...in most of the posting in this site I like that people around the world

are starting to belive ... yet what they know is ... just a scratch of our

Vedas.. which anyway is not available...like in a book store; the translated

ones are just for making money...have faith on God and take care..may Bhagavati

Parvati Maa help you.

Om Namah Shivaya!

Jamini

syzenith <syzenith wrote: