Guest guest Posted September 23, 2005 Report Share Posted September 23, 2005 Dear Jamnadas ji, I really appreciate your guts to tell in public about your failure. This shows that you are ready for change or ready to accept public suggestions. I do not want to tell the stories of great people, how they made their success after many failures. I also do not want to tell you - be positive, have patience etc. But I want to ask you, what efforts have you made to change yourself, so that you can present yourself better to your interviewers? In the last 2 years, you could have made some efforts to learn some new courses - change your line / or take some loan with your qualification with some bankers and started yourself a new business - like just setting up a shop for livelyhood / starting a STD booth / joined with some persons (FREE OF COST), in their business to assist them and have some experience, which would have given you an experience and got a better job. (Please note, many aspiring filmstars, during their initial days, with their OWN money, act and prove their talents and later on they reap these with new offers) There are umpteen opportunities are available for people who want to come up in life... if you say - you are beaten; you are beaten... As you sow; so you REAP.... Please remember this 10 worded statement... for you to change your life... IF IT IS TO BE... IT IS UP TO ME... All the best... Regards A V Murali Manohar ALICO Kuwait, P B 669 Safat; 13007 Kuwait Off: 2474277, Fax: 2474267 Mob: 6851263, Res: 5655912 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2005 Report Share Posted September 24, 2005 Sh. Jamnadas, It is a general doubt that arises in the minds of everyone is "why me alone?" When a door of happiness for one closes the other opens but one often looks so long at the closed door but does not recognize the one that was already opened is pouring in the results. Please do not think that I am sitting on a high rostrum and trying to advise you or showing the path. Everyone is having some or other trouble. An effort was made to explore the possible reason and in any way it does not mean to humiliate you. The efforts made by one give every opportunity to succeed. No matter what ones setback might be, what kind of adversity one is trying to overcome, the assurance from Almighty is not to fear the future but to place ones hand on the plow and move ahead. A comeback will always follow each set back. One just has to keep on keeping on. Delayed response doesn't mean denial. Last but not the least Bhagawan Krisshna in Geeta said "karmanye vadhi karaste…………." which means if the fruit is not achieved at the end of any task will lead to depression and despair that will further arrest the growth, the logic and the enthusiasm. As it is known to one and all that everyone has to exhaust Sanchayat, prarabhd karmas before ones death. This is a must and one cannot avoid it. The Great saint Ramakrishna Param Hans suffered from cancer. But by praying to Almighty the misery reduces to great extent. For this reason the ancestors passed on the tradition of worship to us with a caution not to measure the quantity of what one is paying as it is not the business that we are doing with God. It is nothing but gratitude. Om namah Shivay group shall pray for you to show bright path soon. Aum Namah Shivay. , "b_jamnadas" <b_jamnadas> wrote: > Hello all, > > I regularly read shiva-purana and there is a promise in there from > Lord Shiva that any who reads Shiva-Purana will have their sins > destroyed. The same promise holds for the Om Namaha Shivaya Mantra. I > chant this mantra all the time. I have been looking for a job rather > pateintly now for 2 years and have not found one. I fail in all my > efforts and now I am getting desperate becuase expenses are on the > rinse and my current job doesn't pay well. Does anybody have any idea > what kind of a test is shiva taking of me? I have no idea nopw what to > do. Besides my prayers, what else can I do anyways? > > I am getting pretty desperate and depressed by my repeated failures. > In my most cases, even before I go to the interview, I know that I > will fail, do not ask me how I know this, but I just know. I need some > help or advice to guide me further. > > Sincerely, > BJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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