Guest guest Posted July 19, 2004 Report Share Posted July 19, 2004 This group is about medicine and that too the ayurvedic, people come here to get some advice on some particular illness. the sufferer collects courage and comes out with the problem, but here we involve socio-economic, political and all other factors with the problem. ..what an educated...literate...way !!!!!!! --- shiva akini <shivaa_us wrote: > i cannot understand the problem> many husbands loose > interestes in sex becasue wife is suspicious about > his > friendlyness with other ladies> only remedy for this > conditions all the outwardly sesternised sexual fun > couples play> > yes we have to forget about all the indian culture > and > enjoy sex as long as possilbe> life is too short > --- bonniect <bonniect wrote: > > Good grief Thomas. why don't you just be blunt!! > > Bonnie > > - > > Thomas Simon > > ayurveda > > Sunday, July 11, 2004 12:20 AM > > Re: ayurveda husbents > problem > > > > > > The real question is how old are you? > > Do you feel young and look young? > > Most Indian women neglect their body and look > old > > even before they are forty and expects their > > partners to get aroused! > > Men get aroused by looks; women by touch. > > > > - > > rathnam1000 > > ayurveda > > Thursday, July 01, 2004 9:29 AM > > ayurveda husbents problem > > > > > > > > dear doctor, > > my husbent is age of fifty now he is > > not intrested in sex > > also his orgen become very loose ,and small > ,is > > there is any > > treatment for geting it littlebit stronger. > > > > > > > > > > KERALA_AYURVEDICS :REAL REMEDY FOR HEALTH & > > MENTAL PROBLEMS > > > > > > > > > > KERALA_AYURVEDICS :REAL REMEDY FOR HEALTH & > > MENTAL PROBLEMS > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------- > > Links > > > > > > > > ayurveda/ > > > > b.. To from this group, send an > > email to: > > > ayurveda > > > > c.. Your use of is subject to > > the > > > > > > > Vote for the stars of 's next ad campaign! http://advision.webevents.//votelifeengine/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 25, 2004 Report Share Posted July 25, 2004 Is this posting about ageing wife for real or is it a joke? If not a joke it is very insulting and uninformed - for any man to blame his wife for his impotency is simply naive - impotency even though it has its psychological aspects (as all diseases do) it is not essentially a psychological issue. If a man does not love his wife that is one issue but to blame his wife in this matter is no differant than blaming wife for any other disease issue. Immaturity. The idea that more Indian ladies neglet their bodies is obviously rediculous - but as in many communities wrong diet and lifestyle are followed therefore many women are overweight - but so are the men! I asked several of my friends what they thought about the assertion that men are more attracted to looks and ladies to touch - many laughed at this as they felt that it is the opposite - their opinion is that men are more contact and touch sensitive - whereas ladies are more externaly sensitive - frequently being attracted to a mans facial look or countenance. All sides I believe are only partially true as the fact is that many men and women are attracted to another for the same reasons and many men look for a good body just as some women look for a good body - attraction for another is based on prakruti. Ones own prakruti and the other persons prakruti. This assertions is made by one who has not looked deeply into the issues. Why would one make a point about ladies losing their girlish figures as they mature - when one can walk in the street and see uncountable men that are obese - dirty - gross - etc. Are men allowed to lose their health and youthful figures without problems but a woman becomes unattractive as she matures. This is sad and does not bode well for most marriages. I read a study some years before done by a Bombay psychologist - he reported that in middle class Bombay society 66% of married couples have finished sex by ten years of marriage. Maybe it is attitudes like the posters which is causing this problem? Actually I would blame most impotency problems in men and women on diet, stress, apana vayu problems (mainly circulation), etc. - no doubt psychology gets mixed up in this but psychology is not the primary problem - the psychological aspect is just another symptom of declining general health - which shows up sexualy in men and women as performance issues of various types. I believe that one of the primary challenges of maturation is coming to terms with the multitude of issues that arise as we age. In married people the changes in the body as time goes on is simply another of the infinite challenges to love and commitment. I love my wife more now after 40 years of marriage - the idea that I would criticise her for aging is childish. I also have never detected even a hint of rejection from her because I also have aged. Marriage takes maturity to survive and thrive. > The real question is how old are you? > Do you feel young and look young? > Most Indian women neglect their body and look old even before they are forty and expects their partners to get aroused! > Men get aroused by looks; women by touch. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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