Sairam to one and all - please clarify and advice

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Respected Sai Sister

The fact of your escaping from his clutches within one month and without

physical damage,in itself, I consider as the God's Grace. If you can not

be happy, at least do not give the power to make you unhappy to any

one.

With the Blessings of Swami,

csrao

At 03:21 PM 4/14/2006, you wrote:

Sai ram I am just a one day

old member to this group though i am into sai community for a past decade

and into youth services from AP India and actively participate in all the

sai activities of the sai Organisation .indeed i am very happy to get

united with sai online community my joy new no bounds when i have

received a greeting from a sai sister my joy new no bounds. now let me

start with the main content of this letter with a tricky question which

is related to my life which was haunting me for the past four years,

based on swami's teachings in 2002 a marriage proposal had been

approached by my parents the boy said i am a orphan and don't have any of

the kit and kin. but the reality is he had every body which we had come

to know when we had got drowned. the marriage didn't last not even a

month the boy had humiliated and tortured me which i never forget in my

life time his main intention was to grab the money from my parents as he

was aware of the fact that two of my elders Sisters along with their

families are well placed in U.S. AND i am the only child staying with my

parents in India. my parents support us by all means and treated him more

like a son than a son -in -law in spite of all these there was criminal

thoughts were cropping in his mind at the back stage i had realized this

when he said to me that he wanted to see his own elder sister as a widow

whereas elder's sister is a happy family. one of his maternal aunt has

cautioned to keep me in safe place as the boy was planning something to

harm me one day when my parents had seen me in a maximum troubled state

and they got scared and tried to counsel him in spite of all their best

efforts they could not keep my marriage in tact which was shattered with

in a month. swami wants every one to be happy and enjoy the bliss of

ananda irrespective of any clinging towards the materialistic and worldly

pleasures but this sort of mental torture and miserable life how should i

be in a state of Happiness. and the most important part of this letter is

i had a dreams several times where swami had appeared and had prompted me

to go a head with this marriage before i got married simultaneously when

i had prayed to him taking the proposal of this boy please clarify and

advice be blessed by swami's grace Sai ram Sai sister

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about himself and saves other.swami knew very well what is in store for u after

ur marriage.he wanted to mitigate ur sufferings.that is the reason why he

prompted u to go ahead with that proposal. atleast ur parents were with u

during such a period of pain. there r many people in this world neelima, who

stay with their husbands inspite of a lot of physical and mental torture for

their whole life. in comparison with them ,YOU ARE SAVED. i know swami always

tells BE HAPPY.but it is not in a worldy way as we take it.it means that we

have to surrender all our ego,pains,status and all our kith and kin to HIM

completely and be happy.neelima, have u not heard stories of the great MEERA

and PRAHLADA. were they not tortured ? but even after that ,were they not in

bliss? they were always happy bcoz they have surrendered themselves to GOD ,THE

ALMIGHTY. i do not know how right i am, but i have written most of my thoughts

to you.do not worry .i feel that SWAMI HAS SAVED YOU

AND WILL SAVE U ALWAYS. SAI RAM

saikripaVishnu Neelima <vishnuneelima >

wrote: Sai ram I am just a one day old member to this group though i am into

sai community for a past decade and into youth services from AP India and

actively participate in all the sai activities of the sai Organisation .indeed

i am very happy to get united with sai

online community my joy new no bounds when i have received a greeting from a sai

sister my joy new no bounds. now let me start with the main content of this

letter with a tricky question which is related to my life which was haunting me

for the past four years, based on swami's teachings in 2002 a marriage proposal

had been approached by my parents the boy said i am a orphan and don't have any

of the kit and kin. but the reality is he had every body which we had come to

know when we had got drowned. the marriage didn’t last not even a month the boy

had humiliated and tortured me which i never forget in my life time his main

intention was to grab the money from my parents as he was aware of the fact

that two of my elders Sisters along with their families are well placed in U.S.

AND i am the only child staying with my parents in India. my parents support us

by all means and treated him more like a son than a son -in -law in spite of

all these there was criminal thoughts were

cropping in his mind at the back stage i had realized this when he said to me

that he wanted to see his own elder sister as a widow whereas elder's sister is

a happy family. one of his maternal aunt has cautioned to keep me in safe place

as the boy was planning something to harm me one day when my parents had seen

me in a maximum troubled state and they got scared and tried to counsel him in

spite of all their best efforts they could not keep my marriage in tact which

was shattered with in a month. swami wants every one to be happy and enjoy the

bliss of ananda irrespective of any clinging towards the materialistic and

worldly pleasures but this sort of mental torture and miserable life how should

i be in a state of Happiness. and the most important part of this letter is i

had a dreams several times where swami had appeared and had prompted me to go a

head with this marriage before i got married simultaneously when i had prayed to

him taking the proposal of this boy

please clarify and advice be blessed by swami's grace Sai ram Sai sister

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what his real intention had. Even my mom's sister also didnt know about her

husband mentality. And swami encouraged me to goahead with his words and

actions in my vision. Its almost like 6 months. But i had to much devotion into

swami ratherthan his words. I respect him that's it. Some times if i am not

listening his words, swami used to come into my visions and telling to listen

his words. At last the result is he moulded me to take sanyasa. He is almost

mould me like that. Ofcourse atlast me only see the difference of his actions

and left him right away means i stopped to listen his words. My parents tried

in these 6 months to let out of his wrods. But i am not listened as swami is

giving signs to go ahead with his words. One big wonder you know, sat first

swami told me to listen his words but sooner after he told to me not to listen.

I am just in utter confusion. I coould

not able to find out what is swami's direction. But i sticked my actions and

asked swami to show me right path in actions. As result i am out of his

words. Now i am into my parents words. Now i do think that may i misunderstood

swami's actions even though swami is telling directly to go ahead with his

words. Afte came out of his words we knew that he tried to grab my property.

Because i am the only daughter to my parents. He tried me to take sanyasa. And

he asked my parents to take his son ( my mom;s sister son) as my parents son.

See his idea of doing. We are settled and in good position rather than my mom's

sisters family. See swami how he showed everything. May be i did something

wrong in my previous janma. If karma is there then we can not reach swami.

Although i am in india and worshipping swami i am unable to go

puttaparthi. After suffered for 6 months and i came back to my parents then i

got a call from swami for Physical darshan. and After that swami gave so many

precious moments to me. If our karma is still there swami will give

direction like that. At first i got anger on swami that he gave wrong direction

to me. But soon after i realized that swami did lot lot good to my life to reach

him. SO WHAT EVER SWAMI WILL DO THAT IS FOR OUR GOOD ONLY. WE CAN NOT REALIZE

THIS NOW. BUT LATER STAGE OF LIFE WE WILL UNDERSTOOD THE MEANING OF HIS

ACTIONS. thanks neelima Vishnu

Neelima <vishnuneelima > wrote: Sai ram I am just a one day old member

to this group though i am into sai community for a past decade and into youth

services from AP India and actively participate in all the sai activities of

the sai Organisation .indeed i am very happy to get united with sai online

community my joy new no bounds when i have received a greeting from a sai

sister my joy new no bounds. now let me start with the main content of this

letter with a tricky question which is related to my life which was haunting me

for the past four years, based on swami's teachings in 2002 a marriage proposal

had been approached by my parents the boy said i am a orphan and don't have any

of the kit and kin. but the reality is he had every body which we had come to

know when we had got drowned. the marriage didn’t last not even a month the

boy had humiliated and tortured me which i never forget in my life time his main

intention was to grab the money from my parents as he was aware of the fact that

two of my elders Sisters along with their families are well placed in U.S. AND i

am the only child staying with my parents in India. my parents support us by all

means and treated him more like a son than a son -in -law in spite of all these

there was criminal thoughts were cropping in his mind at the back stage i had

realized this when he said to me that he wanted to see his own elder sister as

a widow whereas elder's sister is a happy family. one of his maternal aunt has

cautioned to keep me in safe place as the boy was planning something to harm me

one day when my parents had seen me in a maximum troubled state and they got

scared and tried to counsel him in spite of all their best efforts they could

not keep my marriage in tact which was shattered with in a month. swami wants

every one to be happy and enjoy

the bliss of ananda irrespective of any clinging towards the materialistic and

worldly pleasures but this sort of mental torture and miserable life how should

i be in a state of Happiness. and the most important part of this letter is i

had a dreams several times where swami had appeared and had prompted me to go a

head with this marriage before i got married simultaneously when i had prayed to

him taking the proposal of this boy please clarify and advice be blessed by

swami's grace Sai ram Sai sister Jiyo cricket on India cricket

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