Seven Things You Must Give to Others if You Want to Achieve Success!

[Guest guest]

A major part of the process of achieving success and living the kind of life

that you dream of is to give. Many people think that to get what you want you

have to take it. There is a universal truth thought that the true path to get

what you want is to give. When you give, you get. What you sow, you shall reap.

If this is true, then what is it we must give? I'll show you the way...

Give Others Your Honesty. The world we live in has a simple rule that most

follow: Lie when you have to. Unfortunately, this may make some people wealthy

but it makes us humans poor. To achieve success is to become wealthy not only

in money, but in character. To be successful, truly successful, is to be able

to attain your goals and keep your character at the same time!

"Honesty is the most single most important factor having a direct bearing on the

final success of an individual, corporation, or product." Ed McMahon

Mister McMahon is right, though others will tell you otherwise. Some people will

say, "You have to bend the truth to get ahead." Not true. Some of the most

successful people who have ever lived where honest people. How about you? Are

you honest in all things? The problem with little lies is they become big ones.

Lies spin out of control. You get caught in one lie and you lie to get out of it

etc. In all things and at all times, give others your honesty.

Give Others Your Respect. Most of the time we give people respect based on what

they have done or what they have accomplished. We gauge whether or not they are

"worthy" of it based on what we know of what they have achieved or who they know

or are related to.

But I believe we should have a higher standard: We respect people not for what

they have done or for who they are related to or for what they can do for us.

Inst!ead, we respect people for simply being.

What would happen in our world, in our company, and yes, even in our families if

we started with respect for everyone else rather than making them earn it? I

think we would see that most people would live up to the respect that we give

them!

Give Others Your Vulnerability. We are taught to "be strong." And yes, we should

be strong. But we have also embraced something that I think keeps us from having

the kind of life that we long for. It is an idea that keeps us from experiencing

the kind of relationships that would bring deep meaning to us. It is the idea of

vulnerability.

"But Chris, make yourself vulnerable and people will step all over you!" It is

true that this will happen. But I have also seen that most people will be drawn

to you. They will help you. They will open up to you. You see, we are all broken

people inside. We all have secrets. Yes, everyone plays "the poser" at some

point in their lives, but when one let's down their veil, others soon follow -

and we all win.

Give Others Your Care. Too many people are running around this old earth not

caring about others. The days of "Look Out for Number One" and Winning Through

Intimidation" are over! Let's bring about a new day when we can care about

others AND succeed!

Take the time to show people you care. Listen to them. Empathize with them. Love

them. Now, I don't mean that you have to go around hugging everyone - that

probably wouldn't fly in corporate America anyway - but we can take some time

to step back from business and be human! And I have found that when we do so,

our business succeeds as well!

Give Others Your Passion. There is nothing this world needs more than passionate

people. And people need passionate people. Living in this day and age can be

tiring. The hustle and bustle of it all can wear you down and tire you out.

Give your passion to others and fire them up.

Don't just be humdrum - be excited.! Give people all the energy you can muster

up. And you will find that energy reciprocal. They will get energized and

passionate. This in turn will fire you up more when you are already charged and

get you going altogether when you don't feel like moving at all!

Give Others Your Experience. We all have areas that we excel in and they are

usually areas that we have experience in. One of the things we can do to make

our lives more meaningful and be of utmost help to others is to show them the

way through the experiences we have.

Sometimes it will be what they should do: Shortcuts to take, people to meet,

etc. Sometimes it will be what they should not do: Shortcuts not to take and

people to stay away from! Whatever it is, we can be of service to others by

giving them our experience and ultimately it will make us all better!

Give Others Your Help. All in all, what we want to do is to help others. Zig

Ziglar says that if we will "help enough others get what they w!ant, we will in

turn get what we want." If we want to be successful, we should consider

ourselves servants of other people. What can we do to help them and make them

better?

If you want to live the life you have always dreamed of ask yourself if you:

Give Others Your Honesty

Give Others Your Respect

Give Others Your Vulnerability

Give Others Your Care

Give Others Your Passion

Give Others Your Experience

Give Others Your Help

This is the true path to greatness and success, not only in business but in life!.

May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our families and

remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength , goodluck,

success and happiness with peace of mind. Sai bhakt, Deepa H debu7366

 

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