Three little words that mean a whole lot

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Our lives have become so fast and so complex but sometimes just three simple

little words can make such a big difference in our attitude towards ourselves

and others close to us..Life can be so much easier and better simply by just

being there for someone who has always been there for you..So Use these 3

simple words as frequently as possible and see the difference it makes in your

lives and in the lives of people who mean a lot to you...

 

 

I'LL BE THERE

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick

child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you

will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there". Being there for

another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for

other people, important things happen to them and us.We are renewed in love and

friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the

very core of civility.

 

I MISS YOU

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and

sincerely said to each other "I miss you". This powerful affirmation tells

partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you

would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the

middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

 

PLEASE FORGIVE ME

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit

their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults,

foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been

in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he

was yesterday.

 

I THANK YOU

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship

of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted.

They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness.

On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often

do not have the attitude of gratitude.

 

COUNT ON ME

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential

ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds

people.Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true

friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count

on me."

 

GO FOR IT

We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your

ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem

to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support

and encourage your friends to follow their dreams.Tell them to "go for it."

 

I LOVE YOU

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that

you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to

belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your family, your friends and

you, all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."

 

May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our families and

remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength , goodluck,

success and happiness with peace of mind.Sai bhakt,Deepa Hdebu7366