Guest guest Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 "We should act lovingly towards all beings. We should not indulge in arguments. If anybody rebukes us we should bear it calmly. Words of rebuke do not cause holes in our bodies. We should not rival with others nor slander others.What others do we should not bother.Their actions with them and ours with us."May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our families and remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength , goodluck, success and happiness with peace of mind.Sai bhakt,Deepa Hdebu7366 Search presents - Jib Jab's 'Second Term' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2005 Report Share Posted February 15, 2005 Dear Anand ji, Tell me one thing, Can u buy someones respect for u?? Can u make some one respect u?? The answer is NO!!!! For example::If there is some one in ur workplace who picks on u or hates u and tries to cause u harm and in reply of that you do the same to him.What will be the difference between u and him? You will say some bad words to him and he will say some bad words to u.This will just lead to an argument but the issue wont be resolved ..It will ruin your day and his too..Moreover , he will still talk bad about u behind ur back and given a chance will also create a negative image of u in front of others... Or May be by refuting him a little u will be successful in preventing him from taking u for granted but do u think he will stop hating u and start respecting u.. NO he will not..So u will not actually stop a problem -U will create a problem by creating more negative feelings for urself in his heart. By being KIND, UNDERSTANDING, POLITE, AND COMPASSIONATE TOWARDS UR RIVAL IS THE ONLY WAY ,YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TURN A NEGATIVE SITUATION INTO A POSITIVE ONE..See it is very simple, Because he spoke words of rebuke- u did the same..he gave u bad words - u gave him bad words too in return.. He showed u his evil side and in return u showed him how evil u could be.. But if u speak to this same person with compassion and show him kindness in ur attitude and be polite and understanding towards him-- he will be forced to act in the same manner with u. HATRED CAN NEVER BUY RESPECT BUT KINDNESS ,POLITNESS,PATIENCE AND LOVE-ALL OF THESE HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE A NEGATIVE SITUATION IN TO A POSITIVE ONE.. And still if that person does not change, U do not change ur path of positive attitude. What ever u sow , u reap ..Let him handle his karma and you take care of ur karma.. May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our families and remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength , goodluck, success and happiness with peace of mind.Sai bhakt,Deepa Hdebu7366 Anand <as_kulkar > wrote: om sai Ram !!! what you send are really Gems and carry lot of weight good to read !! It hels a lot !! I dont know if others do send or have sent already before but i am receiving it for first time and it makes you feel good ! however, to respod to this mail specifically.i sometimes dont agree with this. As few people at your work place might pick on you or anywhere else so I think preventive action can be taken by a refuting a little. Or am i wrong. I know it does not cause any holes in our Body but people take you for granted thats not good. Please send me your opinion or woeds of wisdom on this. Tell me if i am wrong ? Sai Ram Aanand.Deepa H <debu7366 > wrote: Om Sai Ram!! "We should act lovingly towards all beings. We should not indulge in arguments. If anybody rebukes us we should bear it calmly. Words of rebuke do not cause holes in our bodies. We should not rival with others nor slander others.What others do we should not bother.Their actions with them and ours with us."May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our families and remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength , goodluck, success and happiness with peace of mind.Sai bhakt,Deepa Hdebu7366 Search presents - Jib Jab's 'Second Term' Sri Satchidananda Sadguru Sainath Maharaj ki Jai !!!Baba Bless us all Search presents - Jib Jab's 'Second Term' The all-new My – What will yours do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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