Dharma teachings

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Until now we have cherished ourself above all others, and for as long as we

continue to do this our suffering will never end. However, if we learn to

cherish all beings more than ourself we shall soon enjoy the bliss of

enlightenment. The path to enlightenment is really very simple - all we need to

do is stop cherishing ourself and learn to cherish others. All other spiritual

realizations will naturally follow from this.

Our instinctive view is that we are more important than everyone else, whereas

the view of all enlightened beings is that it is others who are more important.

Which of these views is more beneficial? In life after life, since beginningless

time, we have been slaves to our self-cherishing mind. We have trusted it

implicitly and obeyed its every command, believing that the way to solve our

problems and find happiness is to put ourself before everyone else. We have

worked so hard and for so long for our own sake, but what do we have to show

for it? Have we solved all our problems and found the lasting happiness we

desire? No. It is clear that pursuing our own selfish interests has deceived

us. After having indulged our self-cherishing for so many lives, now is the

time to realize that it simply does not work. Now is the time to switch the

object of our cherishing from ourself to all living beings.

Countless enlightened beings have discovered that by abandoning self-cherishing

and cherishing only others they came to experience true peace and happiness. If

we practise the methods they taught, there is no reason why we should not be

able to do the same. We cannot expect to change our mind overnight, but through

patiently and consistently practising the instructions on cherishing others,

while at the same time accumulating merit, purifying negativity, and receiving

blessings, we can gradually replace our ordinary self-cherishing attitude with

the sublime attitude of cherishing all living beings.

To achieve this we do not need to change our lifestyle, but we do need to change

our views and intentions. Our ordinary view is that we are the centre of the

universe and that other people and things derive their significance principally

from the way in which they affect us. Our car, for example, is important simply

because it is ours, and our friends are important because they make us happy.

Strangers, on the other hand, do not seem so important because they do not

directly affect our happiness, and if a stranger's car is damaged or stolen we

are not that concerned. As we shall see in later chapters, this self-centred

view of the world is based on ignorance and does not correspond to reality.

This view is the source of all our ordinary, selfish intentions. It is

precisely because we think 'I am important, I need this, I deserve that' that

we engage in negative actions, which result in an endless stream of problems

for ourself and others.

By practising these instructions we can develop a realistic view of the world,

based on an understanding of the equality and interdependence of all living

beings. Once we view each and every living being as important we shall

naturally develop good intentions towards them. Whereas the mind that cherishes

only ourself is the basis for all impure, samsaric experience, the mind that

cherishes others is the basis for all the good qualities of enlightenment.

Cherishing others is not so difficult - all we need to do is to understand why

we should cherish others and then make a firm decision to do so. Through

meditating on this decision we shall develop a deep and powerful feeling of

cherishing for all beings. We then carry this special feeling into our daily

life.May the Merciful Sri Sai Baba always shower His grace on us and our

families and remove our problems and anxieties by giving us all - strength ,

goodluck, success and happiness with peace of mind.Sai bhakt,Deepa

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