Bhakta Leela Amrut by Das Ganu Maharaj

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To serve one's husband is the Dharma of a lady. There is no other Dharma for

the ladies. Husband is her god so, she should have a pure devotion at his

feet and she should lead a blissful life. When the husband gets annoyed, the

wife should remain calm and polite. One who helps her husband in daily

affairs is really, a great lady, the goddess of the house. One who makes her

husband suffer is indeed, a bad wife. She is not worthy of even talking to.

Ladies should not leave politeness, should not talk to male strangers in

solitude. She should not be alone even with her brother.

The body of a woman is a prey to immorality and hence, one should be

careful. A goat is a prey of a wolf. So people protect it by keeping it

fenced with thorns. This is the rule here too. The female body should be

protected by the fence of religious vows. She should satisfy her husband's

worldly desires and should be very alert about her children by telling them

good stories so as to enable them to follow the path of morality. She should

not envy the in-laws and should develop love for a co-wife if any. She

should lead an exemplary life and take religious vow if she wants to and

follow the instructions of the husband. If the husband dies due to past

Karma, she should remain absolutely celibate throughout the life. If she is

destined to be a widow, she should not sleep on soft mattresses or wear

perfumes. She should try to please the Lord through a vow of fasting on an

Ekadasi day and by taking a simple vegetarian diet.

 

Widows should always listen to religious discourses and should refrain from

a diet which can inflame their desires. They should read the holy books,

worship with full devotion, think about own religious upliftment and lead an

ascetic life. These are the general, principles to be adopted by men and

women. The state of being bound, to the cycle of birth and death. {Baddha

Stithi) will, automatically, stay away if these principles are adhered to.

Now pay attention to me. I am going to explain to you the properties of the

state of being bound.

 

One who does not care for good and evil, who does not respect the Lord and

the one, one who does not have good intentions is bound by the cycle of

birth and death. One who is crafty, talks bitterly and is a great sinner is

also bound. One who does not respect holy men, indulges in worldly affairs,

does not think of charity, and is always arguing is certainly, bound. Oh

Nana, one who does not repay loans, praises oneself and slanders the holy

men and gentlemen is also bound. One who pretends to be a holyman and

follows the path of immorality, one who slanders others to glorify oneself

is also bound. One who betrays one's friends: who creates enmity with his

own Guru, who does not believe in the Vedas is also bound.

 

(To be contd...)

Source http://www.saileelas.org/books/4chap.htm