Guest guest Posted June 10, 2005 Report Share Posted June 10, 2005 Aum Namahshivaya Dear members, I have a brother His name is Dinesh Kumar HG. he is very nasty and short tempered. He scolds, beats my father. he is angry with me because of many reasons but I have no mistake at all. He is like this from small age. I have to go to his marriage but I am afraid that he will do something to me and my wife. Please pray for me so that nothing happens. I am running Sade sathi shani. The reason why he is angry is becuse when we went to his engagement, his would be father in law asked me to keep his daughter with me in bangalore for Two weeks.He suddenly asked me then I had to agree. Later when I went home I thought it was not correct to keep her in my house because they are not married and moreover, my wife works in a call center and during night time I am alone , it is so embarssing to keep her when i have never spoken to her. moreover we only dont have time for ourselves and financial problem also. And I know if i keep them now after marriage they will ask her to stay in my house only, I know it will lead to lot of problems. Seeing the nature of my brother.Every body thinks that others are happy and need help but nobody bothers about the others problem. At that time only I had lost my job and reeling under severe depression. So he is scoldoing through sms, and he is telling my other brother and my sister also that I am bad . But only my father knows the complete truth.i have no mother , My father alone is staying in the village and it is a tough time for me. I can never think of such bad people or is it bad time for us. When we advice younger ones they take it the other way that we are selfish. They think I have got lot of dowry and lead a lavish life.The truth is my marrige was grand but my father in law tells other people that he has given 35 lakhs and a site in bangalore. The truth is only god knows. My father also tells other people that we are doing well so that people thing good of our family and they help my brother but they never understand this. At time I feel people who are old have no common sense and life is so horrible if you lead a truthful and sincere life. I am telling all this because I feel it confessing or telling my agony to Rajarajeshwari ma and I hope she will listen to me and solve all the problems and let my father live in peace. Please pray for me and my father so that nothing happens sai ram mohan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2005 Report Share Posted June 11, 2005 Sai Ram Mohan, Best to cut all ties with your brother or stop commuincating with him for a while. Let him know that you need to to be respected and be talked to in a nice way. Help your father as much as possible. You do not have to agree with your brother on all matters, Our prayers are with you. Sai Ram On 6/10/05, mohanhg88 <mohanhg88 wrote: > Aum Namahshivaya > Dear members, > I have a brother His name is Dinesh Kumar HG...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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