Guest guest Posted September 14, 2005 Report Share Posted September 14, 2005 font-family:"Comic Sans MS";color:fuchsia;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">Sairam color:fuchsia;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> to every one normal">, color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Most of us spend a greater part of our lives worrying about things not color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">going right. Right? But did just worrying about a situation ever changes anything? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Did it make a child come home sooner? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Or a test score higher? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Did it put money in your pocket? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Or a ring on someone's finger? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Make a car run smoother? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Or did it help get a better job? color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">No! All it did was waste a lot of time. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">So what should we do instead of worrying? There's this little story I read color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">which I found quite revealing: color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">There was an old man who operated a rowboat for ferrying passengers between color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">an island and the mainland. One day a passenger noticed that he had painted color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">on one oar the word Work, and on the other oar the word Faith. Curiosity color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">led him to ask the meaning of this. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">The old man replied, "I will show you." Dropping one oar, he rowed only color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">with the oar named Work. Of course, the boat just went around in circles. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Then he switched oars, picking up Faith and dropping Works. And the little color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">rowboat went around in circles again-this time in the opposite direction. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">After this demonstration, the old man picked up both oars Faith and Work, color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">and rowing with both oars together swiftly coursed over the water. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">He looked at the passenger and said, "You see, that is the way it is in color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">life as well as in rowing a boat. You got to keep both oars in the water, color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">otherwise, you'll just go in circles..!" color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">And that's how worry comes about, when we go round in circles. We worry color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">like crazy and then visit every temple, mosque and church about some color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">problem, praying that God will do something, and going back home, hope for color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">a miracle. Worry is simply when we use one oar in the water. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">We worry about a problem and start working from morning to nightfall on it, color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">yet can't come up with a solution. We burn the normal">midnight normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> oil, we go without color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">food or keep unhealthy timings with our sleep and finally find we are color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">nowhere near reaching the answer and then we start worrying why things are color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">not happening. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Work and Faith go together my friend. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">There's no point praying for a miracle in your exams if you haven't studied color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">hard enough. If you have then pray God will give you the peace and calm color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">during the exams to recollect everything; and He will. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Or asking for a promotion or a new job if you are lazy. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">It won't happen, and you'll just go round in circles. color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">So stop worrying, put both your oars into the river of life and start font-family:"Comic Sans MS";color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">rowing color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">. You'll find unbelievable miracles happening..! color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">(Source: Bob's Banter ) color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"> mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;color:blue;font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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