Revere mother

[Guest guest]

Sairam:

Revere the mother. It is very important. But some

take this too seriously and abandon their wife and

children. Baba takes care of the abanded once. Is

there any sayings of Baba regarding taking care of

wife and children? Some adore wife and children and

put the mother in nursing home. They forget one thing

that nursing home will be their home because their

children follow the foot steps of parents. How to

strike a balance in this samasara ocean. No perfect

world.

Sairam.

Partha Saipriyudu

 

Partha

Always be happy.

Whatever happens is for good.

Help one person every day so you can go one step near God.

[Guest guest]

If every man can see Griha Lakshmi in his wife the abandonment should not

happen. Even among the men who abandon their wives, if the mother in law checks

the balance by treating the daughter in law like a daughter, the husband gets

reminded about the duties through the M-in-L . Swami's Dharma Vaahini is a

clear guidance for the Grihasthaasrama Dharmamulu.

Swami 's universal advise is to love all around you, even if they are not

righteous. Slowly the bad needs to be corrected in the other person.

Swami does advise the husband to take care of the wife and children as the

primary duty. I can share our personal interview information.

I am hoping this is to give an opinion and information, and by no means there

is any conceit in this sharing.

My husband is the only son and after my marriage we suddenly moved away to the

Western World to live our dream. He always felt that he was neglecting his

parents. In those days I felt that he was neglecting his immediate family

members due to his work schedules and other community activities. I was taking

care of home, children and my profession besides running around for childrens'

activities. In our personal interview on the 28th of December, 1990, Vaikuntha

Ekaadasi Day, my husband asked Bhagawan if he should take care of his parents

instead of distancing himself physically. Swami knew what was really happening

and out of bountiful love and compassion, explained to him not to worry but to

take care of his wife and children first. He reinforced that there are many

people here who are looking after his parents, including himself. To the last

breath of my father in law it was the truth. On the day that the physical body

of my father in law was being shed, Kedar smelled

nice Vibhooti smell in San Antonio, while he was walking in the Hospital

corridor. It happened at the corresponding moment in India.

Swami, the knower of all decides the karmic righteousness based upon the

balances of karma and guides constantly towards the flow of Love towards the

Ocean of Bliss. He will not let any one be treated any other way. Reactions to

any word is individual phenomenon and individual samskaaraas. A Parent should

have their own place and the wife should have her own place. Everybody should

have the interpersonal tolerance through the practice of Universal love and

divine consciousness.

Meena Chintapalli

[Guest guest]

Meena akka, Sai Ram, you explain everythning so very

simply and beautifully. Vydehi Shastry

 

 

 

--- Meenakshi Chintapalli <mkchintapalli

wrote:

 

> Sai Ram,

> If every man can see Griha Lakshmi in his wife the

> abandonment should not happen. ........

[Guest guest]

Love and blessings,

Meena Akkavydehi shastry <vydehishastry2003 > wrote:

Meena akka, Sai Ram, you explain everythning so verysimply and beautifully. Vydehi Shastry

[Guest guest]

You have said it very very well. I really enjoyed reading your reply regarding

the place for WIFE and Parents.

 

Sairam and Regards,

Kumar.Meenakshi Chintapalli <mkchintapalli > wrote:

Sai Ram,

If every man can see Griha Lakshmi in his wife the abandonment should not happen.....