Guest guest Posted February 22, 2005 Report Share Posted February 22, 2005 Dear Sai Brothers and Sisters, today I went with my two sons (10 and 12 years) to the funeral of their grandpa (I don't know the english word). As I live in Italy, it was a catholic service and people are burried or in the earth or in cement holes (which was the case, quite terrible I think). Giuseppe (called Peppino by his friens) went in hospital immediately after christmas, was operated and had so many complications that now, after two month, he has died. So, once again, at the age of 40, although I know that death is not the end, I feel like a small child, not able to "handle" this experience correctly. I know that he is well and that I must not cry for him, that I must indeed be happy for him. But since we come to this earth we experience the "material", our near and dear once laugh in our face, we see their eyes, we can embrace them. So, how can this change not leave emptiness, someone who is with us and the next "minute" he isn't any more, how can we not feel lost ? I know he is with Swami. Swami told me how things would go, although it is so very difficult for those who are still here, to say goodby to the shell of the body. I really feel as though I havn't improved at all during my live, for I am still not able not to cry for such a loss. What a patience Swami must have with such a bad student than I am. Sai Ram Berit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2005 Report Share Posted February 23, 2005 Angelicpassage Tue Feb 22, 2005 6:54pm Re: [saibabanews] Sai Ram Dear Berit You are still human and have the human feelings. We all feel loss when someone dies, its natural. Maybe someday we can overcome grief, its something to strive for. Kendra ---------- "Srimanta Kumar Jana" <srimantajana Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:52pm RE: [saibabanews] Sai Ram Dear Sister Berit, As you mentioned experiencing death is painful because the person died was to close to you. But you also know that death is also one truth and you will experience it once. So the void created by death of one body is one experience and also the death of self is another experience. When you think about your own death, you have to leave everybody here and go alone. You will leave all your experiences with all the persons in this earth, nature, friends, lovers, parent etc in one short. Does is not the greatest experience than for one single void where many are still around you to feel those void? Are you prepare for this supreme experience in your life? Do you make any preparation for it? You make preparation for everything in your life but you do not prepare for the supreme experience in your life. If you experience it atleast once before your actual death how nice it could be! As swami says that all those small experiences are your luggage, throw those first and make your hands and shoulder free such that you can prepare for the supreme experience by traveling with Him. Because He knows that traveling with Him is painless and full of bliss. And this will be your highest experience in life because you will be traveling with your known guide. Hope everything will be nice with you by grace of our lord. With lots of Sai Love Srimanta ---------- Akkanna_Pragada Anantha_Vijaya <aavijaya Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:57pm Re: [saibabanews] Sai Ram Dear Berit Sai Ram When I was a Student in SSSIHL persuing my MBA, our professor told us about Henry Ford which is as follows: Henry Ford had said that the Indian 'Doctrine of Karma' and its offshoot of 'Rebirth Concept' gives me a great confidence because whatever I planned to do in this birth and if I am unable to complete it in this birth, I need not worry because I can continue in the next birth that work from where I stopped in this birth. No effort is futile. No birth is a waste. Finally NOTHING IS LOST TO SWAMI. We are all in the evolution process and we keep taking births till we realise what we really are. In the evolution, It took many years for us to become a plant from stone and again years for us to become an animal from plant and again many births as varied species of animals to our present birth as a human being. Now it will not take that many years and that many births because human being is the rarest of species and the crown of the creation. JANTUNAM NARA JANMA DURLABHAM It is very easy to attain godhood because we are an aspect of divinity as said in Bhagawat Gita. MAMAIVAMSHO JEEVALOKE JEEVA BHUTA SANATANAH and also as we have an incarnation with us (Swami). Each time we cast away our body we are for the progressing for the better, better birth only. Unless somebody misutilises his present human birth. Swami said to Dr Hislop that It is very rare that a human being goes back to the animal birth. But it is not ruled out. Let us utilise this birth to attain Swami or atleast a saintly birth in the next birth to come closer to the next avatar again. I pray that the departed sould may get peace. With Love & Regards A Anantha Vijaya ---------- Jwalant Desai <jamy Wed Feb 23, 2005 2:02am Re: [saibabanews] Sai Ram Dear Sai Brother, SAI RAM During this trying time of your life, Mythoughts are with you and your family. My belief on the subject isthat it is quite natural to feel the way you do on account of the lossof the dear one. How soon do you regain your balance reflects how deepis your understanding of what SWAMI preaches. Regards / Jwalant Desai- Ahmedabad, INDIA ---------- "Ajith Sankar" <ajithstudyingmba Wed Feb 23, 2005 7:50am Re: [saibabanews] Sai Ram Sairam Berit, Is there such a thing as bad student and good student for Swami, the Loving mother? God is bound to you by the closest bonds of Love. God is the nearest, the dearest, the most loving, the most eager companion and kinsman for man. (Sathya Sai Speaks IX:15ff) saibabanews, bdelaini@f... wrote: > Dear Sai Brothers and Sisters, .......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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