Amma on ~ How to Pray, What Should We Pray For?, etc

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"Only in the depth of pure silence can we hear God's voice."

 

"God is compassion. He is waiting at the door of every heart. He is

an uninvited guest everywhere, because whether you call Him or not,

He is there. Whether you are a believer or a nonbeliever, He is

within you uninvited. Behind every form, behind everything, God is

hiding. He beautifies things and makes them what they are. He is the

hidden formula of life. But He won't reveal Himself to you. You won't

feel Him unless you call Him. Prayer is the invitation. You must

invoke Him through prayer and meditation. Chanting, singing and

repeating the mantra are invitations, asking God to reveal Himself."

 

"God is not confined to a particular body or place. There is not even

an atom of space where He is not. Do not think that Amma is only in

Vallickavu and is only this body. When you pray sincerely thinking of

Amma definitely that vibration will reach Amma and reflect on Her

mind. Your prayers and your pure and innocent sankalpa will bring

Amma to you. Then you will feel Amma's presence and peace."

"Just give your mind to God; take refuge in Him, and you won't lack

anything in life. You will be given whatever you need. Your problems

will be solved, in some way, and you will find peace. Those who pray

to God and meditate on Him sincerely will not feel a shortage of

anything that is essential. That is God's resolve. It is Amma's own

experience. If nothing else, chant the Lalita Sahasranama (1,000

Names of the Divine Mother) daily with love and devotion. Then you

won't lack anything."

 

What is Real Prayer?

 

"A real prayer will never contain any suggestions, instructions or

demands. The sincere devotee will simply say, `O Lord, I do not know

what is good or what is bad for me. I am nobody, nothing. You know

everything. I know whatever you do must be for the best; therefore,

do as you wish.' In real prayer you bow down, surrender and declare

your helplessness to the Lord."

 

"To remember God, you have to forget. To be really focused on God is

to be fully and absolutely in the present moment, forgetting the past

and the future. That alone is real prayer."

How Should We Pray?

 

"Having closed the door, one should imagine that one's beloved deity

is standing everywhere in the room. Then one should pray thus, 'O

Lord, are You not seeing me? O God, please take me on Your lap. I am

Your child. I have no one but You as my refuge. Do not abandon me but

always dwell in my heart.' "

 

"Contemplate on God as your creator, protector and the final abode to

where you will return. Try to feel God with your heart; try to feel

God's presence, grace, compassion and love. Open your heart and

pray, 'O Lord, my creator, protector, and final resting place, guide

me to Your light and love. Fill my heart with Your presence. I've

been told that I am Your child, but I am totally ignorant of my

existence in You. My most beloved Lord, I do not know how to worship

You, or how to please You or meditate on Your form. I have not

studied the scriptures; I know not how to glorify You. O

Compassionate One, show me the right path so that I can return to my

real abode which is nothing but You.' "

 

"Night is the best time to pray. Nature is quiet. No one will disturb

you."

 

"No matter who causes you grief, take your complaints to the puja

room where your real friend is. Go to the puja room and

complain, 'Why did You let him treat me like that? Weren't You with

me?' Open your heart and tell God everything. Then it becomes a

satsang."

 

"Children, try to pray until your heart melts and flows down as

tears. It is said that the water of the Ganges purifies whoever takes

a dip it. The tears that fill the eyes while one is remembering God

have tremendous power to purify one's mind. These tears are more

powerful than meditation. Such tears are verily the Ganges."

 

What Should We Pray For?

 

"A true devotee realises that his Lord is within and without, that He

is all-knowing and all-powerful — omnipresent, omniscient and

omnipotent. Understanding this, the devotee simply tries to express

his total helplessness to the Lord and accepts Him as the sole

protector and guide. In such sincere and open-hearted prayer, the

devotee confesses the uselessness and the burden of his ego. Why

should one keep a useless thing? Therefore, he prays to the Lord to

remove it, to destroy it. This kind of prayer is real meditation, and

it will definitely take one to the goal."

 

"Praying for the fulfilment of petty desires is being stuck in your

mind and all its attachments and aversions. Not only that, it is

adding more to the existing vasanas. New worlds are created. Along

with that, you lengthen the chain of your anger, lust, greed,

jealously, delusion and all other negative traits. Each desire brings

with it those negative emotions. Unfulfilled desires result in anger."

 

"Pray for a contented mind in all circumstances. Prayer becomes

genuine only when you pray for a peaceful and contented mind, no

matter what you get."

 

Remember God in Happiness and Sorrow

 

"Children, now that you are happy and joyful, do not forget God.

Remember God and pray to God even in times of happiness. Usually

people remember God and pray only when they are in pain, as if God

were only a painkiller. Do not be that way. Let prayer and

remembrance of God become part of your daily life. Amma is with you."

 

"Nowadays, people pray to God only during times of distress. If you

pray to God in times of both happiness and sadness, you will no

longer have to experience any suffering. Even if some suffering

should come to you, it won't appear as suffering. God will look after

you. If you can pray to Him with an open heart and shed a few tears

out of love for Him, then you are saved."

 

The Power of Group Prayer

 

"Group chanting and prayer is very powerful. It can change anything.

The lost harmony of the human mind can be restored only through a

selfless attitude supported by prayer, meditation and chanting of

mantras."

 

Crying for God

 

"Children, pray and shed tears as you think of God. That is the

greatest sadhana. No other sadhana will give you the bliss of divine

love as effectively as sincere prayer."

 

"If you can't cry at first, say the words again and again and make

yourself cry. A child will pester his mother to make her buy what he

wants. He'll keep following her around and he won't stop crying until

he has the desired object in his hand. We have to pester the Divine

Mother like that. We have to sit there and cry. Don't give Her a

moment of peace! We should cry out, 'Show yourself to me! Show

yourself!' When you say that you can't cry, it means that you have no

real yearning. Anyone will cry when that longing comes to them. If

you can't cry, make yourself cry, even if it takes some effort."

 

"Say that you are hungry but you don't have any food or money. You

will go somewhere or do something to get food, won't you? Cry out to

the Divine Mother and say, 'Why aren't you giving me tears?' Ask

Her, 'Why don't you make me cry? Does it mean that you don't love me?

How can I live if you don't love me?' Then She will give you

strength, and you will be able to cry. Children, that is what Amma

used to do. You can do the same."

 

"Such tears are not tears of sorrow. They are a form of inner bliss.

Those tears will flow when the jivatman (individual soul) merges with

the Paramatman (Supreme Self). Our tears mark a moment of oneness

with God. Those who are watching us may interpret it as sorrow. For

us, however, it is bliss."

 

~ from www.amritapuri.org