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Prajna wrote:

 

"When people are giving you their negative words and

negative energy you must quickly remember that they

are Amma's children. Try to love them and don't take

in their negativity. Just let it go, if you fight

them, you will just feed that energy and you both will

be hurt. During the confrontation, turn inward to Amma

and know that She is there with you. She will help you

to find the right words."

 

 

 

Dear Prajna ~ I found everything that you wrote to be inspiring, but the

above especially struck me like a bolt of lightning because I am very sensitive

and am too open to other people's negativity. I really like what Swami said to

you, and I am going to print it out and keep a copy.

 

As a line monitor, how have you felt about people like me, who are ill, but

where the illness is not visible. I don't mind waiting a long time; I just

can't do it on the floor with the main group of people. And as my Fibromyalgia

has gotten so much worse, I wonder how long I will be able to wait before the

pain, fatigue, and bloating of my tummy start up. Someone who doesn't have

this illness just cannot understand that doing anything, even sitting, for

longer than 30 or 40 minutes causes my body to totally "crash." So this will be

a

challenge for me too, if I am lucky enough to make it to Santa Fe to see

Amma this summer.

 

Thank you for all your good thoughts and sharing ~ Linda

 

 

 

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> Dear Pranja.

> Namah Shivaya.

>

> This is soooo helpful!!!! Copied and laminated for token line sevites in MI.

>

> Thank you.

> in Amma¹s grace,

> premarupa

> Aum Amriteshvaryai Namah

>

> Prajna wrote:

>

> "When people are giving you their negative words and

> negative energy you must quickly remember that they

> are Amma's children. Try to love them and don't take

> in their negativity. Just let it go, if you fight

> them, you will just feed that energy and you both will

> be hurt. During the confrontation, turn inward to Amma

> and know that She is there with you. She will help you

> to find the right words."

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

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Dear Prajna, Linda and all,

 

I just returned from visiting Mother for a few days in San Ramon. It was

wonderful beyond words to be there.

 

I'm not just complaining or being overly sensitive (Which I have to

admit I am) when I voice my concerns

about some sick people trying to have Mother's darshan. One has to have

what is to me, tremendous physical stamina to make it to Mother's physical

feet. There are so many people trying to have Mother's darshan now that one

really has to jump through hoops. In the morning they give out tokens, but

if you have had Darshan this Fall they tell you to come back in 3-4

hours to see if you can get a token, then tell you

to come back 2 hours later to see if you can get a token. Then tell you

that you cannot

have a token that day. I think that it has pretty much come down to having

one or so darhans per Mother's visit, unless a person is otherwise lucky.

 

This still does not take into consideration that there are people who

simply cannot

be there for a long time without causing themselves physical harm.

Yesterday I

encountered a woman who was obviously severely chemically sensitive, could

not be in the hall for long, and was trying to communicate with an otherwise

very nice hall monitor who just did not "get" the problem. It was all

very sad to me.

 

How one differentiates between an impatient person, and a person who is

in severe physical distress is beyond me. Also, when one is very ill the

tendency

is to become overly sensitive, or crabby, etc. A person in a wheel chair

may be able

to wait for hours, whereas a person with an invisible disability may be able

to wait for half an hour. (I'm not making any judgments here.)

 

I remember once "in the early days" being so sick that I was literally

in and out in

5 minutes. Those days are long gone. I think that for some of us it

comes down

to trying to just be in Mother's presence without killing

ourselves...... or just paying the price.

 

Now I am going to go lie down and think about my Beloved.

Still in Bliss,

prasadini

 

 

nierika wrote:

 

>

> Prajna wrote:

>

> "When people are giving you their negative words and

> negative energy you must quickly remember that they

> are Amma's children. Try to love them and don't take

> in their negativity. Just let it go, if you fight

> them, you will just feed that energy and you both will

> be hurt. During the confrontation, turn inward to Amma

> and know that She is there with you. She will help you

> to find the right words."

>

>

>

> Dear Prajna ~ I found everything that you wrote to be inspiring, but the

> above especially struck me like a bolt of lightning because I am very

> sensitive

> and am too open to other people's negativity. I really like what Swami

> said to

> you, and I am going to print it out and keep a copy.

>

> As a line monitor, how have you felt about people like me, who are

> ill, but

> where the illness is not visible. I don't mind waiting a long time; I

> just

> can't do it on the floor with the main group of people. And as my

> Fibromyalgia

> has gotten so much worse, I wonder how long I will be able to wait

> before the

> pain, fatigue, and bloating of my tummy start up. Someone who doesn't

> have

> this illness just cannot understand that doing anything, even sitting,

> for

> longer than 30 or 40 minutes causes my body to totally "crash." So

> this will be a

> challenge for me too, if I am lucky enough to make it to Santa Fe to see

> Amma this summer.

>

> Thank you for all your good thoughts and sharing ~ Linda

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Aum Amriteswarayai Namaha!

>

>

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Every time I attend one of Mother's visits and get my darshan token,

I remember how lucky I was to have met her 8 or 9 years ago -- when

the wait was only 3 or 4 hours for darshan and one could have

Mother's darshan twice a day (once in the morning program and once

again in the evening). And, would you believe that, at that time, I

thought that 3 hours was an interminable wait?

 

Also Mother's throwing of flower petals after Devi Bhava usually

occurred at about 3 a.m., and I thought, "Oh my God, I have to stay

awake in the hall until 3 a.m.?" That was nothing! Now the end of

Devi Bhava is long after day has dawned, and I haven't managed to

stay awake that long for several years.

 

Many times, the crush of people, just in getting in and out of the

hall is almost to the point of being frightening (and I'm not

particularly claustrophobic).

 

We were just so fortunate to have met Mother years ago and to enjoy

her presence with only moderate crowds there!!! I think so often of

what a blessing, when Mother used to leave the hall walking through

the lines of devotees and touching their hands on her way out. That,

too, hasn't happened in a long time -- but what wonderful memories of

Amma. And how wonderful that She continues to do this, at all.

Every year, it must become more and more difficult for her.

 

Rosetta

 

Ammachi, ganesh108@c... wrote:

> Dear Prajna, Linda and all,

>

> I just returned from visiting Mother for a few days in San Ramon.

It was

> wonderful beyond words to be there.

>

> I'm not just complaining or being overly sensitive (Which I have to

> admit I am) when I voice my concerns

> about some sick people trying to have Mother's darshan. One has to

have

> what is to me, tremendous physical stamina to make it to Mother's

physical

> feet. There are so many people trying to have Mother's darshan now

that one

> really has to jump through hoops. In the morning they give out

tokens, but

> if you have had Darshan this Fall they tell you to come back in 3-4

> hours to see if you can get a token, then tell you

> to come back 2 hours later to see if you can get a token. Then tell

you

> that you cannot

> have a token that day. I think that it has pretty much come down to

having

> one or so darhans per Mother's visit, unless a person is otherwise

lucky.

>

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