Butterfly

Would anyone be able to help? I just want to understand the mahadasha and bhukti I am in. In Feb I am going to live with a man I have never met. He says he loves me I feel he loves me but it seems vedic only points to him being interested in sex. We are meeting in Feb 6th Minneapolis Minnesota at 12:15 pm.. my birth info is May 9th 1969 4:57pm Tucson Arizona, his is November 2, 1979 1:38pm Minneapolis Minnesota. Is it because I have mars in the 8th in scorpio and he has venus in the 8th in scorpio that makes it about sex? Is there any love? Does it show attraction to each other? Doe it show love and respect? I'm very worried. Please anyone that can help me please? Thank you

Hi I am new, would very much like to learn about Vedic Astrology. My Nakshatra is Shatabhishak or SATABHISAJ My Rising is Virgo with Jupiter on it Sun ARIES 25 44' Moon AQUARIUS 10 27' Mars SCORPIO 22 23' Mercury TAURUS 16 5' Jupiter VIRGO 2 48' Venus PISCES 18 59' Saturn ARIES 8 1' Rahu VIRGO 4 21' Ketu PISCES 4 21' Uranus VIRGO 6 44' Neptune SCORPIO 4 7' Pluto AQUARIUS 29 7' My question is I am very confused to figure what Dasa and Bhukti period I am in. I am now 37yrs old. From ages 27-31 I was very very happy. I was very blessed. Now everything the last 6 years have gone bad, terrible, horrible, and I am hoping to know when this period ends please. Can anyone help teach me how to calculate this. I try to read websites but I find it very confusing. Thank you