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There is only your voice --there are none other.

 

There is a process called "Positive Self-Talk".

 

You simply don't listen to reason [even when it comes from yourself --you turn a cold shoulder to your better judgement].

 

We are not the body--"we are spiritsoul" --so intimately and thoroughly knowing this maxim is the goal of a Spiritual life . . . in the meantime:

 

The material Body is made of 8 combined elements:

 

earth + water + fire + air + either

 

and then {drum-roll},

 

mind + intelligence + False-ego. {gong}.

 

The mind does two things: accepts things as attractive //or// rejects things as un-attractive.

 

The intelligence does the following:

 

Considers the logistics/rationale/probabilities etc., of an outcome.

 

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Professional artists and sportsmen must pre-visualise the outcome of the up-coming engagement before the start of the contest [a student does the same by preparing for an exam].

 

Inorder to rid a bad habit --you must replace it with a better habit, that would be fully engaging of your time and energies.

 

Discipline means that setting a goal that involves an incentive that has greater value than the 'smoking a cigerette'.

 

The mind is talking to you . . . inorder to overcome a dependency to an inert material product (tobacco) . . . that's encouraging. No?

 

The mind and the Intelligence ideally must be inaccord with eachother.

 

It is lust only for the oral fixation that allows you down time.

 

It is necessary to inflate the nature of the importance of 'why to quit' --and then keep re-inforcing the logic and the degree of importance of why you must quit.

Thanks Bhakatjan ji,

"t is lust only for the oral fixation that allows you down time."

Sorry i dint get this line..could u plase elaborate it ?

Respected dots_dashes,

 

Congrats. You have taken a good step towards healthy living by quitting smoking. Make sure you stick by your decision.

 

Well, I do not have adequate amount of knowledge about spirituality or issues pertaining karma, so it is unjust for me to give you half-boiled opinions of mine.

 

There are many members here that are advanced in their spiritual side and are of profound knowledge of the matters that you seek clarifications. Maybe they know what is it.

 

Health-wise, whatever IT is, it made you make a good decision, thank god for that and may god bless you always.

Thanks a lot...m hoping i would stick to my decesion...i tried it lot of times...but not this long...sometime due to mental stress i started it again..this time i would stick to my decesion...

PLease forum members throw some light on this matter

Respected Dots_dashes,

 

Welcome to the forum. I cannot comment on spirituality. Being in health-care field, I do feel you should stop smoking. It does harm zillion times than hardly any good. I know it might sound cliche. Why depend on inner-voices to quit smoking, the transformation should come by YOU and backed by strong will power. There are many therapies that you could follow. Please consult your GP or doctors near you I am sure, they would willingly help you get over this habit.

 

 

I have studied cases similar to your experience pertaining conscious and unconscious mind and some erratic behaviours. I think again you should consult a doctor, relate your experiences well. He might refer you to the proper channels. The treatments are many, one of them is behavioural therapy.

 

 

Sometimes we are confused what we are actually going through. Seek medical help first. Nothing to be scared. It is a quite common problem. I would like to apologize if I offend you anyway by my suggestions and for me offering cliched comments. Thank you.

Thanks a lot!

My qs is y its happening to me...is it karmas?

or something else...or some devil force is dominating on me

I have already quit somking 2 weeks back...my q is what kindaa inner voice is that?

Does Inner voice is some spiritual voice or its just our conscious that speaks or can say alertness that speaks...

Like in my case...I have started smoking since 5 years back...but since last 3 years.. every time i smoke some voice comes from inside.."don't it will harm you and your future".

Its been more than 2 years now..when i last got success in my life..that time also when i used to get inner voice for quitting this habit...but i dint ...now m not getting success...i feel that's spiritual voice asking me to quit smoking then only i will get success..

does it happen to every one or its me only feeling in this way?

but i feel some good creatures in this world stopping me for smoking...

One more thing i want to discuss..is thr two parts in mind...unconcious and concious mind...

n sometime ur unconcious mind starts dominating you while you are not awake (Sleeping)...n u start doing what you have never thought of..even after getting up in morning also you are not aware of it...but you come to know from other people...

can that happen...if yes then how can some 1 have control on that??