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I have been recently going through a bad phase in my life.. I am married for last 1 year and 1 month. My wife was introduced to our family in one of our community marriage sammelan. My wife had falsely mentioned that she is a graduate (BA) in the form though she has just managed to appear for her first year in BA. All these months I have been asking her for her degree certificate and she made excused saying that it is at her friends place. Now after a year she has finaly informed about her not comleting graduation and have only appeared for 1st year. I am a professional with a post graduate in a respected job and I would have married a non graduate girl in the first place. Now when we asked for apology from her and her parents thay are trying to show that we never asked for her graduation. ALso now that we have informed some respected members of the community about this they are trying to create stupid stories about I and my parents harrasing an torturing her and telling everyone. She has always been very obsessive about me, have always cribbing about small things, have never given any respect to my parents and many times tried to emotional black mail me my cutting her wrist or trying to leave the house in the midlle of night over trivial issues. Even now they are in no mood to repent and last time we tried to mediate her father got very violent and threatened me of dire consequences. Right now she is at her parents place. Even after I getting to know about her lying about the graduation I had maintained decent relation with her and she was staying with me .. After that she had gone there to stay at her parents place for 4 days and now its almost a month that she is not back..not that we didnt call her back. But now i am in 2 minds weather to get her back and try to change her mentality but on the other side I find this as a risk as once we get her back she can make any false allegations. Please guide me..I am not sure what to do about all this.. We both have same nadi though blood groups are different.. is there any issue with that.. The following are my and my wifes birth details. Myself: 1st Oct 1979 Birth Place : Pune Rime: 9:55 A.M. Spouse: 23rd Nov 1985 Place: Pune Time: 13: 18 p.m.

I have been recently going through a bad phase in my life.. I am married for last 1 year and 1 month. My wife was introduced to our family in one of our community marriage sammelan. My wife had falsely mentioned that she is a graduate (BA) in the form though she has just managed to appear for her first year in BA. All these months I have been asking her for her degree certificate and she made excused saying that it is at her friends place. Now after a year she has finaly informed about her not comleting graduation and have only appeared for 1st year. I am a professional with a post graduate in a respected job and I would have married a non graduate girl in the first place. Now when we asked for apology from her and her parents thay are trying to show that we never asked for her graduation. ALso now that we have informed some respected members of the community about this they are trying to create stupid stories about I and my parents harrasing an torturing her and telling everyone. She has always been very obsessive about me, have always cribbing about small things, have never given any respect to my parents and many times tried to emotional black mail me my cutting her wrist or trying to leave the house in the midlle of night over trivial issues. Even now they are in no mood to repent and last time we tried to mediate her father got very violent and threatened me of dire consequences. Right now she is at her parents place. Even after I getting to know about her lying about the graduation I had maintained decent relation with her and she was staying with me .. After that she had gone there to stay at her parents place for 4 days and now its almost a month that she is not back..not that we didnt call her back. But now i am in 2 minds weather to get her back and try to change her mentality but on the other side I find this as a risk as once we get her back she can make any false allegations. Please guide me..I am not sure what to do about all this.. The following are my and my wifes birth details. Myself: 1st Oct 1979 Birth Place : Pune Rime: 9:55 A.M. Spouse: 23rd Nov 1985 Place: Pune Time: 13: 18 p.m.