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Respected Sirs, What is the right time to sandhyavandanam in the evening? In the summer sunset is usually around 8:30 or 8:45PM so is it okay to day sandhyavandanam at 6pm? Thanks Sunsri

Deepa ji , USR ji, Sasisekaran ji, mathurastro ji, thank you for your feedback and analysis. we hope and pray for the best. thanks Sunsri

dear sasisekaran ji, it was completely arranged marriage. horoscopes were exchanged and when they matched - the parents met, the boys parents met with the girl and then the boy and girl talked on phone and email for nearly 10 months and then there was girl seeing ceremony. 6 months later the wedding was organized. the boys parents say - the boy liked the girl and the girl liked the boy - that is why after 10 months of conversation and interaction - they finally agreed to meet face to face and liked each other and decided to get married. after 6 months the wedding was arranged. no one was forced to marry any one. it was out of their own will and with the blessings of the elders that boy and girl agreed to get married. now they have differences they should resolve them. they are grown-ups and have to take responsibility for their words and actions. thanks Sunsri

dear sasisekaran ji, our family is very orthodox and religious. my sister is very sensitive person and she feels that her spouse is very mean, harsh with words and doesn't care for her and doesn't appreciate her. they have difference in mindset and attitude towards life. they can never agree on the same thing. the boy is very stubborn and very big miser - very calculating. Boy is NOT orthodox when following traditions but religious and frequently goes to temple. he is focussed/obsessed on work and has very few friends and not much of social life. boy's parents say - we want boy and girl to be happy. the boy and girl are educated, consenting adults, who got married with their own free will( even though the match making was arrranged). we can't force our old fashioned views or be a judge to decide who/what is right or wrong. they don't want either boy or girl to blame them for playing favorites. it is an issue for both of them to resolve. if they can't resolve their differences now - how can they raise a family and spend life together? thanks Sunsri

dear USR ji, can you please explain "BIL's chart indicates that he can't continue marital bondage" ? thanks Sunsri

dear sasisekaran ji, thank you for looking at the boys chart. it was an arranged marriage - our astrologer(maternal uncle) said that there is very good matching of charts and we then proceeded with the wedding. even now he maintains that both the charts are very good match and this is a short term problem. in oct/nov 2007 we made contact with the boy's maternal uncle to help but with no success. they are very religious and orthodox people. so maybe we can appeal to their senses. there are 2 thoughts running in the family - one is to reconcile and the other is to part ways. if this is a short-term phase and doing the right pariharams will help them reconcile their differences, we are for their re-union. If they will be cat and mouse for ever and miserable and make everyone else also miserable, then it might be better to go separate ways. for a girl, being separated and trying to establish life is very difficult but then who can fight vidhi. Q: is it possible to look at a chart and predict 2 marriages? thanks Sunsri

dear sasisekaran ji, how is the boys chart? does he also need to perform any remedies? thanks Sunsri

thank you for analyzing the charts. i will ask my sister to follow the remedies suggested sincerely. we don't remember the exact time the thaali was tied. the muhurtham for the thaali dharanam was 7:30 to 8:30 am on May 6, 2005. We think it was more around 8am that the actual thaali was tied. Childlessness was not an issue since they were planning on having a child only after 3 years. they had small differences since the start of the marriage. we thought it will get resolved eventually over time but we don't know the complete details of the issues. their first major disagreement and separation was in aug/sep 2005( they were living separately for about 4 weeks). Q: Will she be happy if she goes back to live with her spouse or will she be having constant disagreements/difference of opinion? Q: Will she and her spouse be able to put all their differences behind and live happily together and raise a family? thanks Sunsri

thank you very much for looking into the chart. separation was in May 2007. thaali was tied between 7:30 and 8:30 AM on May 6, 2005. Sunsri

deepa ji, learned members, please help. Sunsri

Respected Sirs, I looks your forward to your feedback, Thanks in advance, Sunsri

USR ji, Sasisekaran ji, learned members, can you please analyse this chart and share your findings, Sunsri

I am posting this for my sister. She is currently going through a very difficult time in her life. Major losses in life and she is currently separated from her husband and are not even communicating. Will she get re-united. Will she be happy living with her husband. Are there any remedies that can be performed. her details: DOB: July 3, 1980 Time of Birth: 21:00 Hours IST POB: Kollam, Kerala his details: DOB: July 27, 1973 Time of Birth: 03:10 AM IST POB: Madurai, TamilNadu Date of Marriage: May 6, 2005. Appreciate your help, Sunsri