Problem in marrige. 11/7

Shashwat,

I have answered ur case sometime back I guess

but anyway let me see now

I see between 7/8/07 to 6/6/08 there can be some improvement on ur side prayers

to any form of lakshmi will help u

u had ashtama sani along with anot a good period for marital happiness till Aug.

from hers

was there any rise in comforts,conveyances, happiness due to work otherwise.

between 23/11/05 to now some unbriddled events may have led to this state.

there r some complexes in her mind and some fears

she may also try something suicidal between 21/4/08 to 19/4/09 after this her

life will be better

it can be due to negligence or design a accident or injury is possible.

but till then suspense will prevail, some counseling will help both marriage and

psychic too and for the latter the entire family must join her whatever is ur

size now [married family].

prayers to any form of Vishnu helps

shashwat pandey <shashwat_pandey wrote:

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Respected list,

Recently there has been lot of problems in my marrige, and currently it seems

that marrige will not survive, i am giving details of mine and my wife, kindly

let me know if it is possible to save the marrige... also if there is any

remidial steps that i should do.

My details is as followes:-

Name:- Shashwat Pandey

DoB:- 21st March 1979

Place of Birth:- Jaunpur (UP)

Time of birth:- 18:02 hrs

My wife's details are as followes:-

Name:- Priyanka Shukla

DoB:- 23rd Sept. 1980

Place of birth:- Pratapgarh (U.P)

Time of Birth:- 23:48

Any help will be highly appritiated.

Regards

Shashwat.

***********************************

If you really want the good of others, the whole universe may stand against you

and cannot hurt you. It must crumble before your power of the Lord Himself in

you if you are sincere and really unselfish.

Swami Vivekananda

 

Respected Prashant Ji,

Sadar Namaskar,

Thanks very much for your reply, i am greatful to you.

You are correct in terms of rise in comfert level after Nov. 05, my salary was

increased many fold suddenly and we were living a lavish life till April 2006,

after that problems in marrige started to crop up, she left for her home town to

attain one of her friend's marrige, even i also joined her there (last year

May). She was suppose to return back to me in month of June (2006) but did not

returned, stating that she will come if she like's. I tried in vane, later i

found that she had a mobile, about which i was not aware of.. that really shoked

me as from my side i did not see any problem which could instigate her not to

inform me about her mobile number...

In anycase she volunterly returned back to me, in Sept. 2006, things were very

smooth till Dec. (2006) when there was a mis-carrige, which i came to know was

intentional !! (medicine was purchased from a store!!) Thereafter i had to leave

India for some official work,(Jan 2007) while i was abroad, her behaviour

towards me changed drasticly, upon my return back to india (May 2007), within a

week she left for her home town, and now this is about 2 months i am not aware

where exactly she is. Her Family seem to be non careing towards her, she is part

of a group, more close to group member's then her own family member's.

Is there any chances of change in her mind set ? how much scope is there for

this marrige to survive if i countinue to try and remain committed to this

relationship, currently i am having lot of emotional problems as practically i

am without my better half for more then 6 months now!!

I doubt her mental soundness too.

Kindly advice as what should i do.

Thanking you in advance.

Best Regards

Shashwat

On Wed, 11 Jul 2007 Prashant Kumar G B wrote :

>Shashwat,

>

>I have answered ur case sometime back I guess

>but anyway let me see now

>

>I see between 7/8/07 to 6/6/08 there can be some improvement on ur side prayers

to any form of lakshmi will help u

>

>u had ashtama sani along with anot a good period for marital happiness till

Aug.

>

> from hers

>

>

>was there any rise in comforts,conveyances, happiness due to work otherwise.

>between 23/11/05 to now some unbriddled events may have led to this state.

>there r some complexes in her mind and some fears

>

>she may also try something suicidal between 21/4/08 to 19/4/09 after this her

life will be better

>

>it can be due to negligence or design a accident or injury is possible.

>

>but till then suspense will prevail, some counseling will help both marriage

and psychic too and for the latter the entire family must join her whatever is

ur size now [married family].

>

>prayers to any form of Vishnu helps

>

>

>

>

>

>

>shashwat pandey <shashwat_pandey wrote:

Š>

> Respected list,

>

> Recently there has been lot of problems in my marrige, and currently it seems

that marrige will not survive, i am giving details of mine and my wife, kindly

let me know if it is possible to save the marrige... also if there is any

remidial steps that i should do.

>

> My details is as followes:-

>

> Name:- Shashwat Pandey

> DoB:- 21st March 1979

> Place of Birth:- Jaunpur (UP)

> Time of birth:- 18:02 hrs

>

> My wife's details are as followes:-

>

> Name:- Priyanka Shukla

> DoB:- 23rd Sept. 1980

> Place of birth:- Pratapgarh (U.P)

> Time of Birth:- 23:48

>

> Any help will be highly appritiated.

>

> Regards

> Shashwat.

>

> ***********************************

> If you really want the good of others, the whole universe may stand against

you and cannot hurt you. It must crumble before your power of the Lord Himself

in you if you are sincere and really unselfish.

>

> Swami Vivekananda

>

>