>
> >> A: So the insinuation is that by not answering letters or
> >> dealing personally with disciples, the guru may not be taking
> >> proper care of the disciples. But I would offer that there is
> >> a misconception here in guru-disciple
> >
>
> >It all boils down to the disciple preaching and acting so nicely
> >that the spiritual master will want to see the disciple. This is
> >the best way to 'see' the spiritual master rather than the
> >disciple forsaking the initiative to solve his\her own problems
> >with the immense amount of knowledge available in ISKCON.
>
> Am I the only one who found it sad that Indrayumna Maharaja never answered
> his disciple's question? While it is understandable that some gurus may
> not have the time to answer every letter, that does not mean that they
> can't figure out some other way in which their disciples can get their
> questions answered. They can suggest that the disciple consult some other
> senior devotees, that they take a siksa guru, or they can set up a system
> from within their own group of disciples (e.g. let some of their own
> senior disciples answer certain kinds of questions from more jr disciples)
> to help care for each other.
>
> Maharaja spent the entire darsana on explaining why the disciple had
> unrealistic expectations, but not a moment trying to find out what the
> burning questions might have been, that led the disciple to speak up.
> Personally, I found that an example of poor listening skills.
>
> Sorry if my blunt owrds offended anyone. However, we need to increase the
> sense of personal caring in ISKCON, not make people feel badly for not
> acting in ways so "that the spiritual master will want to see the
> disciple". These kinds of exchanges are likely to lead to an increasing
> number of frustrated disciples who then go on to seek support elsewhere
> outside of ISKCON.
>
> Ys,
> Madhusudani dasi
Here I agree with the words of the Mataji... hope that doesn't surprise any
of the readers.
I think it's a very good suggestion that senior disciples can liase with
junior disciples. Srila Prabhupada had a secretary answer each & every
letter he received.
The idea of a "shiksha guru" is also "right on". Ramanujacharya had at
least half a dozen of them... and he is supposed to be an incarnation of
Lakshman (rama + anuja = Ramnuja = the younger brother of Lord Rama).
Over all; after rereading this, I feel that there are several valid points
here. Vaishnavism and Vedic culture are supposed to be personal. The "big
institution" that we live in *sometimes* instills the feeling in some of us
that; "well, who cares - it's not my business". It's easy to pass the buck.
And the unnatural thing about "modern urban" city life is that there are
simply *too many* people to relate to. Compare this to the village life -
it comes through clearly in CC when Mahaprabhu talks to the Chand Kazi -
where everyone feels a "familial" relationship with everyone else in the
village. And why not? Everyone there knows each other... but in the modern
"city" setup - nobody knows his next door neighbor (yes, this is somewhat
exaggerated) and they couldn't care less who lives next door anyway.... and
this mentality is coming here in India too in a big way. For instance;
Bombay. Just how many people live there? 1.5 Crore! (15 million). Just
how many people can we relate to on a daily basis, anyway? What is humanly
possible?
The bottom line is that in kali-yuga things are upside down. Things go
wrong quick. The path of adharma is seen as the path of dharma, etc.
So these things should be considered. Relationships between guru-shishya
are meant to be personal. So nothing wrong with accepting fewer
disciples...
On the other hand making many disciples seems to increase the number of
vaishnavas rapidly. But indeed the problem arises as to how they will be
properly guided in the future...
It might be answered that SP didn't consider that as the foremost "worry";
but the preaching mission was considered the foremost. So maybe if more
senior devotees were seen as "gurus"; even if they aren't "diksha gurus",
but only shiksha gurus, that might help "even things out" as it were.
Anyway, these are just some thoughts. I'm not going on any campaign on
this... yet.
Vaiava dsanuds,
Bsu Ghosh Ds