atma 0 Report post Posted August 29, 2002 Strong men live longer Men need to feel needed, says a new study in Psychosomatic Medicine. Researchers at Yale University who studied 305 healthy couples found that married men lived longer and were less depressed if their wives depended on them as a source of strength. These men lived six years longer than men who depend on their wives as a source of strength may die earlier, researchers believe, because of the stress that comes from bucking the societal norm that says the husband is the pillar of strength. Also, these men may suffer stress from worrying about their wives dying and leaving them alone. The longevity of a woman seems unaffected by whether she is more depended on her husband, or vice versa, with one important exception. Women who are the source of strength for their husbands and who are childless tend to outlive women in other familial states. It could be that the "sheer burdens" of dealing with children and grandchildren take their toll on the women's life spans, researchers say. The Week Magazine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites