Guest Jayanthi Report post Posted August 16, 2018 My father in laws Varushabthigam is falling this month end. He has two sons and wife. Eldest son wants to do the varushabthigam in Pune which is difficult for my mother inlaw and husband to attend. Is it OK if both of them avoid attending or my husband has to attend by default. Your views with suggestions please Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites