umbaba 0 Report post Posted June 14, 2008 respected learned ones, in another thread i had written about a lady relative having this dosha. her details are date of birth 26/08/1968, time 4.55 AM, place Kanpur. she migrated to chennai as a baby and completed post graduation and is a teacher now. she has no perfect job(no monetary and mental satisfaction), she could not get married, she ahs one elder sister (married) parents are alive but dependent on her. it ahs always been slip between the cup and the lip always for job. she is now not inclined to marry (dejection)? can you please help and provide some solution. pranam umbaba (i am posting again as ididnt get much response ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted June 14, 2008 umbaba ji How orthodox/broad-minded is the lady? Best Wishes Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umbaba 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 deepaji, she is religious and caring towards all the people irrespective of religion etc., probably one among the handful of people left with human values. it pains to see her sufferings because she takes as if it is her fate?! i have never seen her talk back to her parents or any body including children. kindly help pranam umbaba Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 Well, i posed this question only to know if she hails from a background where it is easy to think of marriage at 40. Most average indian families take it as "something which has to be done" Remedies would differ - in my opinion remedy should include lot of self confidence and financial stability (i havent seen the chart) Or do you think remedy should include increasing marriage possibility? Best wishes Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umbaba 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 madam, she is not interested in marriage. butall the relatives are pushing her but she is adamant. financial security would be the best help. pl advice. pranam umbaba Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 Dear umbaba, Let her not be critical of circumstances and destiny. She is a perfectionist and a good home maker. Firstly, with her age factor, kal sarp dosh is nullified. The time is ripe for her to get married but certain strong remedies are required. 1. Ask her to read sankatmochan hanumanashtak every evening without fail. 2. Make her wear an iron ring cast out of the horseshoe of a black horse in her middle finger on saturday. 3. Also make her wear Pukhraj, minimum 7.25 ratti, in the right hand index finger on Thursday 4. Make sure she goes in for regular exercise - her chart indicates feeling of well-being through varjish I am very sure these remedies will help. Best wishes Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umbaba 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 madam, thank you. i will tell her to follow your advice. her questions are: will she get a good job? will she be able to look after her parents after marriage(if she decides to marry) general financial health thanks pranam umbaba Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 Dear umbaba, Remedies include all these. She needs a shift in mindset. How long can one let circumstances control them? There is no perfection in the world if we are sensitive to each and every aspect. Let her gain on positivity. Exercise is vital. Best wishes Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 Dear umbaba, Remedies include all these. She needs a shift in mindset. How long can one let circumstances control them? There is no perfection in the world if we are sensitive to each and every aspect. Let her gain on positivity. Exercise is vital. Best wishes Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umbaba 0 Report post Posted June 15, 2008 madam, thank you. iwill pass on the message to her. pranam umbaba Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
