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Janaki

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  1. Shri Sasisekaranji, I had posted my marriage date and time earlier as per your request. Marriage date: Dec 6 2007; Time: 4.30-5.00am When you get some time, please let me know your analysis. I am beginning my Tuesday fasting tomorrow as per your advice. Thank you.
  2. Monica: Thanks for your encouraging words. I am searching hard for a job in India now, but with job market being bad it is challenging. I am focusing my energies on getting a job. When you say that this happened because of in-laws, is that as per our horoscope or more a general view based on my circumstance. The reason I ask is that when I spoke to one astrologer few months back he told me that my husband was confused and that he was being influenced by an external force to make the decision to file for divorce. In your view, will he realise that his parents are not only trying to spoil my life, but also his life by doing this? If so, when? Can you suggest any additional remedies besides what has been previously posted on this website? Thank you.
  3. gladtobhere: I thank you for your analysis and encouraging words. I hope that your words come true. I am praying sincerely to God for courage.
  4. kingpin9969: Thanks for your analysis. I will be patient. But, is there divorce per my husband's horoscope? Can divorce happen even if there is no divorce per one of the partner's horoscope? gladtobhere: Thank you for your kind words. The details you have seem to be correct. I await your analysis.
  5. Shri Sasisekaranji, I am extremely grateful to you for the concern with which you answer my questions at this extremely trying period in my life. I pray to God that he bless you for the great service you are rendering to people like me through this forum. Marriage date: Dec 6 2007; Time: 4.30-5.00am I will definitely observe fast and donate food on Tuesdays. I await your further analysis, Sir.
  6. Shri Sasisekaranji, Thank you for your reading. Is there any remedy/prayers that I can specifically do to help unite with my husband? I have tried calling him up and emailing him, but he is not responding to anything for the past few months. Also, my father is the one diagnosed with cancer. His father is well. Infact, when I went to meet his parents (when they were briefly in India last month) they insulted and spoke very rudely to me and my parents, inspite of the fact that my father is ill. After seeing how badly they spoke to me, my parents are also very upset. I would really appreciate any help and remedies you can suggest. I want to try my best in terms of my prayers to see if I can save this marriage. If finally God wills that it is otherwise, I ask for God to give me strength to accept that too. Until then I want to keep trying with patience. Thank you, sir.
  7. my understanding from my astrologers at the time of marriage was that he is not mangalik. Mars is in the 7th house but it is in its own house, therefore not mangalik. Also my astrologer told me that venus in the 3rd place is hidden, therefore it being with rahu in third house is not relevant. This is what was told to me at the time of marriage. Sasisekaranji and others who have had a chance to read the horoscope, please let me know if that interpretation is wrong. Thank you all for taking the time to analyse our horoscopes.
  8. coolgimmy: Thanks for sharing your views. Can you tell me what planets and position in my husband's chart leads him to possess these negative qualities? Thanks again for your time. Somajuice: Your point to me is appreciated. I agree that this thread is not the place to discuss arranged marriages. But, I just wanted to make one point - even though this marriage was an arranged marriage, my parents did not force me to marry this guy. My parents compared hororscopes and sent me profiles of a lot of guys and I met with some of them before I met my husband. I decided to marry my husband because I genuinely fell in love with him after I spent 3 months getting to know him - only then did I agree to marry him.
  9. mylilangel: Thank you so much for your analysis. I appreciate your time. I have already been looking for a job in India, I will intensify my efforts per your analysis. Just 1 question: I am told that I will start my Mercury dasha in 2011. How will that dasha be for me? Ayush and somajuice: Thank you for your advice. I understand your point of view. I have been going through this for 10 months now and am trying to move on with my life. Even though I consider myself today's practical woman, some part of me is rooted in Hindu philiosphy - where divorce does not exist. This combination of my values and beliefs is what is leading to my struggle to accept that this marriage is over and give up so easily. But, I appreciate your concern and good advice. Durgaputra, Thank you for your kind words, I look forward to reading your assessment of my horoscope. My only prayer to the Almighty Mother is that She do what is right for me. Being the Mother of this universe, I am convinced that She will only do what is best for her child. ShivaParvati: Thank you so much for your offer. I was in Banking, and with financial institutions in the worst shape in the US, I am not sure if it makes sense to come back to the US. Thanks anyway for your kind words.
  10. thank you for your kind words, ramakiran3. Only God can help me now, I have totally surrendered to Him.
  11. Dear Shri sasisekaran Thank you for your kind reply. I understand that as per US divorce law, even if I dont sign these papers, my husband can get a divorce by himself. I am praying to God to give him good sense. I await your detailed reading of our horoscope and reply. Thank you.
  12. Pranaams, I got married in 2007. This was an arranged match by our parents, but I met, spoke and spent about 7 months before marriage getting to know my now husband. He seemed very affectionate and loving person at that time until May 2008. I had a high-paying job in US, which I quit sometime after marriage to move to my husband in a different city (in US as well). The problems started when I moved to live with him in May 2008. His parents arrived there before I did and made my marriage extremely difficult. His parents are extremely possessive since he is the only child. They interefered in every aspect of our marriage and I had no privacy. All conversations however private would be shared with my father-in-law by my husband. Slowly, my inlaws started becoming verbally abusive towards me. I tried asking my husband for some support, but he said whatever his father said or did was right. With all this and my job loss, my father was diagnosed with cancer in India. So after getting permission from my husband and in-laws I came to visit him. After I came here, my husband called me only twice and sent me an email saying he was filing for divorce in US because of irreconcilable differences. Even when I tried calling, emailing him there has been no response. I cannot go to the US since he has cancelled my green card application and hence i dont have a visa. I know that he still loves me and I believe that his parents are forcing him to get a divorce since they do not seem to like me. I am now in India without a job and abandoned by my husband. What has led to all this? Will my marriage survive? Will I be able to revive my career? I am offering regular prayers to Goddess Durga and doing prayers to Sani. Please help me. I hope God will guide me through your advice on this forum. My information: DoB: 21 August, 1977 Time:6.26AM Place: Hyderabad My husband's information: DoB: 4 November, 1973 Time: 5.30 AM Place: Chennai
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