1# Re: Marriage problems --> nass_ns

03-08-2005, 10:47 PM

HI Nass,

After a long in Loop of mails,I will just try to match
a synastry b/w you and your Husband.

1)Your's is Leo rising and Husband is Aries.Lagna in
trine,Good thing.But as both are fire,fight got to be
there

2)Your Mars in his Mars also Conjuct being in same
sign,so lots of competetion is there b/w you and
him.If you both rather do what you want to do,rather
than fighting and understand,one keep a mouth shut
than your major problem is resolved.Than no one will
see other as a stone.One has to kep oneself calm no
matter what he or she is going through than only
matter can be resolved.

3)As you said you are blunt,so don't be that,very
simple,isn't it.Leo rising people are like that.

4)Synastry Sun is 2-12,feelings have died for each
other.

5)Venus 2-12,But Lord of Both is same,similar to
Sun,But characters are different,sorry to say Love
will also dry out.

6)MArs 1-1,Only competetion left.Problem is if Mars
some how would have related with saturn than passion
would had been there and you never had such a problem
and grievances in Life.

7)But matching Navmasa chart,I see there is lots of
passion buried b/w you ,Just not coming out,Mars-Mars
1-1 is creating a problem,So if argument will stop and
than let passion come out of you.

In navamas,Both ways Mars-Venus getting squared
but,which shows passion + arguments,in that way you
are forgetting what you need to do.

7)your Marriage is a Karmic connection,Which I don't
see breaking.Your Husband's Venus is Conjuct with your
Rahu, I se he Loves you and will never forget you
ever.

8)you ar going through saturn dasa and it is
debiliated,While in his case He is going through
Jupiter dasa.so problem is more over with you,rather
than him.So just stop fighting.Saturn tells you about
keeping patience,understanding,being calm,silence ,not
hurrying up things.So if you imbibe these qualities in
yourself,Saturn will be happy with you and will get
what ever you want.

When Mercury dasa will start everything will be all
right,It is not worth breaking up.

I see Mercury Sextile b/w your charts,so don't let
your talking goo,But let heat in that go.

Best of Luck.
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> >
> > _____
> >
> > From: nass_ns [mailto:nass_ns@y...]
> > Sent: Wednesday, March 09, 2005 10:50 AM
> > To: vedic-astrology (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com
> > Subject: [vedic-astrology] Re: Marriage problems
> >
> >
> >
> > Actually I had a very strong affair ard the age of
> 16 yrs. It
> almost
> > lasted for 3 yrs but later we broke up as my
> parents were against
> > it. I went into so much depression that I even
> tried to commit
> > suicide. This suicide attempt was a failure and I
> had to undergo
> > surgery and miss 1 yr in college due to it.
> >
> > I am not egoistic but very helping and adjusting
> person, I hate
> > hyprocites. I am very pure by heart. But very
> blunt in speaking,
> > what is in my heart is on my lips and this
> sometimes does cause
> > problems, as people think I am very blunt and
> outspoken.
> >
> > My father did not have any major problem during my
> Sat dasa. But
> ard
> > the age of 7 yrs (not very sure), our family had
> met with a car
> > accident and in that my father hurt his back and
> since then he has
> > slip disc problems. So health is not so good
> overall. Morever he
> > suffers from diabetes and is slightly over weight.
> Both my parents
> > are very famous doctors and well placed and well
> known in society.
> >
> > I hope I have answered all your questions. I am
> also learning
> > astrology. Pls let me know if I can pursue this as
> a career.
> Explain
> > all the things that you see in my horoscope, so
> that I can also
> > learn these things from you. Why did u ask if we
> had a love
> marriage
> > and other details.
> >
> > But from the side of my husband, I was his first
> love and so he was
> > dead bent on marrying me. Before marrying him I
> had told him abt my
> > past relationship and he had accepted that
> gracefully.
> >
> > Do you see a second marriage in my horoscope? I
> know for sure if I
> > reconciale for now, I will take this step again
> aft few yrs because
> > he does not give me any feeling of security or
> emotional bonding.
> > >From my side this is a dead relationship which we
> are just
> dragging.
> >
> >
> > --- In vedic-astrology (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, Praveen
> Kumar
> > wrote:
> > > Your horoscope is correct. Your 7th lord is
> debilitated, hence
> the
> > problem. But aspected by Jup, hence saved the
> marriage. From Dec
> > 2002 you are under Sat-Rahu. One is 7th lord,
> another in the 7th,
> > hence bad for marriage. But see, after Oct 2005 it
> will be Jup
> > antara. Thus, marriage won't break after that.
> However, I feel,
> > looking at other factors like Varshaphala, that
> separation is
> > imminent with a fresh lease of life thereafter.
> Some affair
> possible
> > thereafter. Now answer following for my research:
> > > 1) Was your marriage some sort of love marriage
> or had you had
> any
> > pre-marital affair ?
> > > 2) Are you an egoistic and dominant over your
> husband ?
> > > 3) Relationship with husband deteriorated during
> Sat-Sun (May
> 1999
> > to April 2000) ?
> > > 4) How was Saturn dasa (from 1989 till date) for
> father ?
> > >
> > > You can write personally, but give correct
> information.
> > >
> > > Praveen Kumar (Mumbai)
> > >
> > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > From: nass_ns
> > > To: vedic-astrology (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com
> > > Sent: 08, 03, 2005 7:17 PM
> > > Subject: [vedic-astrology] Marriage problems
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > My TOB is 9:27pm, Bombay, 30-1-1970 (wife)
> > > 9:30am, Delhi, 25-2-1970 (husband)
> > >
> > > My marriage was a complete failure from day
> one, but I carried
> > on as
> > > I did want my marriage to break. But now aft
> 11 yrs of our
> > > marriage, my husband wants a divorce, we did
> file for it. But
> > now he
> > > wants to withdraw and reconcile. I am in a
> fix, pls help.
> > >
> > > My husband has no sexual desires and is a very
> cold and
> > unexpressive
> > > person. Living with him is as though you are
> living with stone.
> > I
> > > don't know what to do? Morever he does not
> have any confidence
> > on
> > > his decisions and shuns responsibilities, so
> keeps changing
> jobs
> > > every year.
> > >
> > > We have a 8 yr old son
> > > Date of marriage 30-5-1993
> > > Date of birth of son 29-9-1996
> > > Had started eczema problem in 1997 and it
> finally got cured in
> > Apr
> > > 2002.
> > > Got an abortion done in end of 2000 (as did
> not desire a 2nd
> kid)
> > > Currently my husband is working away from home
> and is suffering
> > from
> > > gastric problems off and on.
> > >
> > > I would be grateful if the learned jyotishs
> out there help and
> > throw
> > > some light on my married life and my future
> with my husband. OR
> > > should I take the bold step of divorce?
> > >
> > > Thanks
> > >
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