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02-21-2007, 07:08 AM
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how to conquer anger?
There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it was easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. Dont kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. Imagine how many friends you have already lost because of little things. ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you misuse it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is to harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the cause of your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with anger. Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties to whom you blame. How to deal with Anger The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. Should we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to use that extra fuel created by energy to do something more creative ? Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep down in your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living volcano, you will for sure think several times. Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow and guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully you will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava will keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep hurting you for days. While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire of repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has finally flown away, drained out. The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the calculation of damage we have done to ourselves. In all this process, you will notice that, the person who provoked you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. WHO PAYS for the anger? If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, it would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is not made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - an intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger can take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out of us. In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of your life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with anger, many people will have lost many years already. Do your calculation now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has any shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake like phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in your body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in reality drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy which is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and exercise you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy again. It does work. So we do lose a lot by anger? Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually diminishing our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration and stay on this planet with our present name. How do we deal with it? First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you angry, what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in which way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above practice of quick analysis. Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain fraction of LIFE. If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to lose 40% of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously the causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are losing much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is divine and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE itself. You will never get back that lost essential life energy. REMEMBER! We are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these friends. If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be a victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually just to keep their ego uninflated. If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people or change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend their ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you upset. JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME there are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is always a way out..... Change yourself and save yourself. padma --------------------------------- 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. |
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02-22-2007, 05:28 AM
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Re: how to conquer anger?
Jai Gurudev Dear All, One thing that i would like to tell you all after reading this email, Gurudev had once said, that anger in a person is good, but that anger if channelised into creative energy, will take the person on a super fast path to success, progress happens only then. Best Regards Chander ----- Original Message ---- From: "padmahiraskar69 (AT) yahoo (DOT) com" To: gayatri pariwar Sent: Wednesday, 21 February, 2007 5:38:05 PM Subject: [issplist] how to conquer anger? There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it was easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. Dont kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. Imagine how many friends you have already lost because of little things. ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you misuse it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is to harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the cause of your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with anger. Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties to whom you blame. How to deal with Anger The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. Should we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to use that extra fuel created by energy to do something more creative ? Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep down in your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living volcano, you will for sure think several times. Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow and guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully you will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava will keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep hurting you for days. While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire of repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has finally flown away, drained out. The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the calculation of damage we have done to ourselves. In all this process, you will notice that, the person who provoked you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. WHO PAYS for the anger? If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, it would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is not made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - an intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger can take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out of us. In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of your life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with anger, many people will have lost many years already. Do your calculation now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has any shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake like phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in your body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in reality drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy which is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and exercise you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy again. It does work. So we do lose a lot by anger? Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually diminishing our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration and stay on this planet with our present name. How do we deal with it? First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you angry, what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in which way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above practice of quick analysis. Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain fraction of LIFE. If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to lose 40% of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously the causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are losing much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is divine and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE itself. You will never get back that lost essential life energy. REMEMBER! We are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these friends. If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be a victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually just to keep their ego uninflated. If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people or change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend their ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you upset. JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME there are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is always a way out..... Change yourself and save yourself. padma 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. __________________________________________________ ________ Yahoo! India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new http://in.answers.yahoo.com/ |
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02-22-2007, 11:21 PM
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Re: how to conquer anger?
Jai Gurudev Dear All: Pandit R.DAKSHINAMOORTHIJI - the ace astrologer and remedial consultant from Chennai taught me this mantra to control destructive anger (I am currently a yogi (85 years old, former Army officer) but in the initial stages of my sadhana I used to distracted by uncontrollable temper and was losing sadhana energy unnecessarily and contacted Panditji for a remedy): "Om Shaante Prashaante sarva kroddha prashamani swaaha" 21 times when you feel angry. If you immerse your ring finger in water and chant this mantra for 21 times early in the morning and drink the water and sprinkle a little of it on your head, you will be able to manage your anger better. Also this will help you to ward off the dangers arising out of Divine Wrath which might have been consciously or unconsciously provoked. I just thought I will share this information with Gurubhais here. Best wishes. --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, Chander D > > Jai Gurudev > > Dear All, > > One thing that i would like to tell you all after reading this email, Gurudev had once said, that anger in a person is good, but that anger if channelised into creative energy, will take the person on a super fast path to success, progress happens only then. > > Best Regards > Chander > > > ----- Original Message ---- > From: "padmahiraskar69@..." > To: gayatri pariwar hyderabad shivaya rajeeshneemkar@...; iamthehappiness@... > Sent: Wednesday, 21 February, 2007 5:38:05 PM > Subject: [issplist] how to conquer anger? > > There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag > of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a > nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails > into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it was > easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. > Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He > told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now > pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. > The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father > that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and > led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look > at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you > say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. > > You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how > many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. > > A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare > jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They > lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to > open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. Dont > kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. Imagine > how many friends you have already lost because of little things. > > ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you misuse > it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper > management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is to > harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the cause of > your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with anger. > Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to > others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties to > whom you blame. > > How to deal with Anger > > The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. Should > we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to use > that extra fuel created by energy to do something more creative ? > > Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep down in > your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living volcano, > you will for sure think several times. > > Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow and > guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? > > The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully you > will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava will > keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep hurting you > for days. > > While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire of > repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has > finally flown away, drained out. > > The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the calculation of > damage we have done to ourselves. > > In all this process, you will notice that, the person who provoked > you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. > > WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. > > WHO PAYS for the anger? > > If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, it > would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is not > made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - an > intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. > > Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger can > take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out of us. > In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of your > life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with anger, > many people will have lost many years already. Do your calculation > now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. > > Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has any > shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake like > phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in your > body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in reality > drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy which > is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and exercise > you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy again. It > does work. > > So we do lose a lot by anger? > > Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually diminishing > our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration and > stay on this planet with our present name. > > How do we deal with it? > > First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you angry, > what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in which > way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the > reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. > > Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above > practice of quick analysis. > > Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by > letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. > Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain > fraction of LIFE. > > If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to lose 40% > of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously the > causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are losing > much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is divine > and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE > itself. > > You will never get back that lost essential life energy. REMEMBER! We > are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. > > If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these friends. > If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is > unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be a > victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually just > to keep their ego uninflated. > > If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people or > change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend their > ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. > > DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you upset. > JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME there > are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is always > a way out..... > > Change yourself and save yourself. > padma > > > 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time > with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. > > > > > __________________________________________________ ________ > Yahoo! India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new > http://in.answers.yahoo.com/ > |
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02-23-2007, 02:32 AM
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Re: how to conquer anger?
Jai Gurudev, THIS FORUM IS ONLY FOR THE FOLLOWERS OF SIDDHASHRAM SADHAK PARIVAR. HERE EVERY MANTRA, EVERY TANTRA & EVERY YANTRA HAS TO BE NECESSARILY FOLLOWED FROM SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILESHWARANAND'S OWN WORDS. SECONDLY, THIS IS TREQUEST TO ALL GURUBHAIS THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF SADHANAS FROM PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV FOR EACH & EVERY PROBLEM OF LIFE. TIME & AGAIN THIS HAS PROVED THAT ALL THE SADHANAS GIVEN BY SIDDHASHRAM GURUDHAM JODHPUR & NEW DELHI ARE 100% TRUE & ONE CAN ACHIEVE THE DESIRED RESULTS AFTER PERFORMING THESE SADHANAS. THIS IS MY SOLEMN REQUEST THAT WHATEVER SADHANS & MANTRA WHICH A GURUBHAI NEEDS FOR A SPECIFIC PROBLEM HAS TO BE NECESSARLI BE FROM SADGURUDEV. IF STILL WE HAVE NOT UNDERSTOOD OUR SADGURUDEV & KEEP ON TALKING ABOUT FATE, DESTINY, STARS, ASTROLOGY, JANMA KUNDALI THEN SHAME ON US. REMEMBER THAT NO ONE IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE IS AS POWERFUL AS SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILSEHWARANANAD. PLEASE REMEMEBR IT IS OUR OWN WEAKNESS IN LIFE THAT WE ARE NOT GETTING THE DESIRED RESULTS IN OUR SADHANAS. PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT BALME OUR GURU PARIVAR FOR OUR SUCCESS & HAVE SOME SHAME BEFORE YOU GO & REFER OTHER DHONGI & PAKHANDI GURUS. EVERY MANTRA, TANTRA & YANTRA EXISTING IN INDIA DEFINITELY HAS ITS ROOTS RELATED TO SADGURUDEV'S KNOWLEDGE. SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOLLOW YOUR OWN SADGURUDEV. JUST IMAGINE PEOPLE SAY THEY DON'T HAVE TIME & I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE TO ATTEND 14 ODD SHIBIRS IN PUNE, MUMBAI, VAPI, KURIKSHETRA, JODHPUR & YAVATMAL DURING THE LAST 15 MONTHS, WITHOUT NEGELCTING MY DUTIES & JOB. SO PLEASE AWAKE, BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. YOU NEVER KNOW WHETHER YOU WILL GET ONCE CHANCE IN NEXT LIFE TO BECOME A DISCIPLE OF PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV. WHATEVER YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE ACXHIEVE IT RIGHT AWAY, TIME IS RUNNING OUT. IF YOU WERE TO ACHEIVE SUCCESS IN LIFE WITH YOUR OWN STRENGTHS & POWERS FROM WHAT EVER SO CALLED SOURCES WHICH YOU DERIVE FROM YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN A SUCCESSFUL PERSON. BUT, NO WE AE HELPLESS WE JUST CANNOT ACHIEVE ANYTHING WITHOUT SADGURUDEV'S KRUPA. ISI LIYE HAR KSHAN YEH PRARTHANA KARE " HEY SADGURUDEV MAIN AAPKA SHISHYA NIKHIL GOTRI, JAANE ANJAANE PEECHLE KAI KAI JANMO SE MERE HATHON SE KAI PAAP, DUSHKARMA, GUNAAH KIYE HAI, ISI JANMA MEIN KIYE HAIN AUR MERE HATHO ISI JANMA MEIN HO RAHE HAI. AAP SE KEWAL YEHI PRARTHANA KI MERE HRIDAY, ANTARATMA,ANTARMAN, SHARIR KE EK EK ANG, ROMM ROMM, RAKT KE EK EK KAN SE KAAM, KRODH, LOBH, MOH, MAYA, RAAG, DWESH, AHANKAAR JITNE BHI MERE DURUGUN WAH SAARE JALKAR SAMAAPT HO JAAYE, PHIR MAIN HAR KSHAN HAR PAL AAAPKE SHREE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN SHISHYAVRAT BANKAR APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA RAHOO. MERE AUR AAPKE KE IS PAAVAN PUNEET EVAM PAVITRA SAMBANDH KE BEECH KABHI "AHANKAAR" KI DEEWAR NA KHADI HO. OOS AHANKAAR RUPI DEEWAR KO AAP TOD DE, OOS AHANAKAAR ROOPI RAKSHAS KO AAP JALAKR BHASMA KAR DE. DIR PRATIDIN EK ACHCHA INSAAN BAN SAKU, HANUMANJI KI TARAH PARAM GURUBHAKAT BANU AUR AAPKE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA RAHU. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE START SERIOUSLY WATCHING SOME HISTORIC SHBIR CD ROMS AGAIN & AGAIN WHEREIN YOU WILL KNOW YOU ARE THE DISCIPLE OF THE "MOST" POWERFUL SADGURUDEV IN THIS UNIVERSE. Sadgurudev ki jai. Gurusevak, Manoj Gilda. --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, "mohanraaam" > > Jai Gurudev > > Dear All: > > Pandit R.DAKSHINAMOORTHIJI - the ace astrologer and remedial > consultant from Chennai taught me this mantra to control destructive > anger (I am currently a yogi (85 years old, former Army officer) but > in the initial stages of my sadhana I used to distracted by > uncontrollable temper and was losing sadhana energy unnecessarily > and contacted Panditji for a remedy): > > "Om Shaante Prashaante sarva kroddha prashamani swaaha" 21 times > when you feel angry. > > If you immerse your ring finger in water and chant this mantra for > 21 times early in the morning and drink the water and sprinkle a > little of it on your head, you will be able to manage your anger > better. Also this will help you to ward off the dangers arising out > of Divine Wrath which might have been consciously or unconsciously > provoked. > > I just thought I will share this information with Gurubhais here. > > Best wishes. > > --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, Chander D > > > > Jai Gurudev > > > > Dear All, > > > > One thing that i would like to tell you all after reading this > email, Gurudev had once said, that anger in a person is good, but > that anger if channelised into creative energy, will take the person > on a super fast path to success, progress happens only then. > > > > Best Regards > > Chander > > > > > > ----- Original Message ---- > > From: "padmahiraskar69@" > > To: gayatri pariwar > hyderabad > > shivaya > > rajeeshneemkar@; iamthehappiness@ > > Sent: Wednesday, 21 February, 2007 5:38:05 PM > > Subject: [issplist] how to conquer anger? > > > > There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a > bag > > of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to > hammer a > > nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails > > into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it was > > easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. > > Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. > He > > told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now > > pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his > temper. > > The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his > father > > that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand > and > > led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but > look > > at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When > you > > say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. > > > > You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how > > many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. > > > > A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very > rare > > jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. > They > > lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to > > open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. Dont > > kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. > Imagine > > how many friends you have already lost because of little things. > > > > ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you > misuse > > it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper > > management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is to > > harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the cause > of > > your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with > anger. > > Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to > > others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties > to > > whom you blame. > > > > How to deal with Anger > > > > The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. > Should > > we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to use > > that extra fuel created by energy to do something more creative ? > > > > Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep down > in > > your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living > volcano, > > you will for sure think several times. > > > > Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow > and > > guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? > > > > The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully you > > will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava > will > > keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep hurting > you > > for days. > > > > While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire of > > repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has > > finally flown away, drained out. > > > > The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the calculation > of > > damage we have done to ourselves. > > > > In all this process, you will notice that, the person who provoked > > you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. > > > > WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. > > > > WHO PAYS for the anger? > > > > If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, it > > would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is not > > made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - an > > intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. > > > > Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger > can > > take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out of > us. > > In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of > your > > life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with > anger, > > many people will have lost many years already. Do your calculation > > now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. > > > > Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has > any > > shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake like > > phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in > your > > body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in reality > > drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy > which > > is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and > exercise > > you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy again. > It > > does work. > > > > So we do lose a lot by anger? > > > > Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually > diminishing > > our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration and > > stay on this planet with our present name. > > > > How do we deal with it? > > > > First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you angry, > > what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in which > > way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the > > reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. > > > > Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above > > practice of quick analysis. > > > > Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by > > letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. > > Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain > > fraction of LIFE. > > > > If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to lose > 40% > > of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously the > > causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are losing > > much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is > divine > > and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE > > itself. > > > > You will never get back that lost essential life energy. REMEMBER! > We > > are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. > > > > If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these > friends. > > If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is > > unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be a > > victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually > just > > to keep their ego uninflated. > > > > If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people or > > change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend their > > ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. > > > > DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you > upset. > > JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME > there > > are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is > always > > a way out..... > > > > Change yourself and save yourself. > > padma > > > > > > 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time > > with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ ________ > > Yahoo! India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new > > http://in.answers.yahoo.com/ > > > |
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Re: Re: how to conquer anger?
Sri Gurucharana Kamalebhyo Namah Truly Said Manoj. This group is only for discussions on Satgurudev Sri Paramhans Nikhileswaranand. I would not be interested in receiving any other kind of discussions in this valued group. Padma you are discussing irrelevant to this group subject. I also see that you are sending this mail to various spiritual groups. Please note that this group issplist is NOT a spiritual group. It is an online group for the disciples of Guruji to interact regarding Guruji, Guruseva activities, Mantra Tantra Yantra vigyan that originated from Gurudham and approved by Satgurudev. Also the article on Anger looks so awefully childish. Seems like written by someone who doesn't understand what anger is. Padma please stop posting this kind of general ideas on this group. I believe you to be a disciple of Satgurudev, please discuss topics that are relevant to the group. Yeah Manoj please check the capslock key on the keyboard. It's on the extreme left of the keyboard  Jai Gurudev On 2/23/07, manojgilda > > Jai Gurudev, > > THIS FORUM IS ONLY FOR THE FOLLOWERS OF SIDDHASHRAM SADHAK PARIVAR. > HERE EVERY MANTRA, EVERY TANTRA & EVERY YANTRA HAS TO BE NECESSARILY > FOLLOWED FROM SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILESHWARANAND'S OWN > WORDS. > > SECONDLY, THIS IS TREQUEST TO ALL GURUBHAIS THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF > SADHANAS FROM PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV FOR EACH & EVERY PROBLEM OF LIFE. > TIME & AGAIN THIS HAS PROVED THAT ALL THE SADHANAS GIVEN BY > SIDDHASHRAM GURUDHAM JODHPUR & NEW DELHI ARE 100% TRUE & ONE CAN > ACHIEVE THE DESIRED RESULTS AFTER PERFORMING THESE SADHANAS. > > THIS IS MY SOLEMN REQUEST THAT WHATEVER SADHANS & MANTRA WHICH A > GURUBHAI NEEDS FOR A SPECIFIC PROBLEM HAS TO BE NECESSARLI BE FROM > SADGURUDEV. > > IF STILL WE HAVE NOT UNDERSTOOD OUR SADGURUDEV & KEEP ON TALKING > ABOUT FATE, DESTINY, STARS, ASTROLOGY, JANMA KUNDALI THEN SHAME ON > US. > > REMEMBER THAT NO ONE IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE IS AS POWERFUL AS > SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILSEHWARANANAD. > > PLEASE REMEMEBR IT IS OUR OWN WEAKNESS IN LIFE THAT WE ARE NOT > GETTING THE DESIRED RESULTS IN OUR SADHANAS. > > PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT BALME OUR GURU PARIVAR FOR OUR SUCCESS & HAVE > SOME SHAME BEFORE YOU GO & REFER OTHER DHONGI & PAKHANDI GURUS. > > EVERY MANTRA, TANTRA & YANTRA EXISTING IN INDIA DEFINITELY HAS ITS > ROOTS RELATED TO SADGURUDEV'S KNOWLEDGE. > > SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOLLOW YOUR OWN SADGURUDEV. > > JUST IMAGINE PEOPLE SAY THEY DON'T HAVE TIME & I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE > TO ATTEND 14 ODD SHIBIRS IN PUNE, MUMBAI, VAPI, KURIKSHETRA, JODHPUR > & YAVATMAL DURING THE LAST 15 MONTHS, WITHOUT NEGELCTING MY DUTIES & > JOB. > > SO PLEASE AWAKE, BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. > > YOU NEVER KNOW WHETHER YOU WILL GET ONCE CHANCE IN NEXT LIFE TO > BECOME A DISCIPLE OF PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV. > > WHATEVER YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE ACXHIEVE IT RIGHT AWAY, TIME IS RUNNING > OUT. > > IF YOU WERE TO ACHEIVE SUCCESS IN LIFE WITH YOUR OWN STRENGTHS & > POWERS FROM WHAT EVER SO CALLED SOURCES WHICH YOU DERIVE FROM YOU > WOULD HAVE BEEN A SUCCESSFUL PERSON. > > BUT, NO WE AE HELPLESS WE JUST CANNOT ACHIEVE ANYTHING WITHOUT > SADGURUDEV'S KRUPA. > > ISI LIYE HAR KSHAN YEH PRARTHANA KARE " HEY SADGURUDEV MAIN AAPKA > SHISHYA NIKHIL GOTRI, JAANE ANJAANE PEECHLE KAI KAI JANMO SE MERE > HATHON SE KAI PAAP, DUSHKARMA, GUNAAH KIYE HAI, ISI JANMA MEIN KIYE > HAIN AUR MERE HATHO ISI JANMA MEIN HO RAHE HAI. > > AAP SE KEWAL YEHI PRARTHANA KI MERE HRIDAY, ANTARATMA,ANTARMAN, > SHARIR KE EK EK ANG, ROMM ROMM, RAKT KE EK EK KAN SE KAAM, KRODH, > LOBH, MOH, MAYA, RAAG, DWESH, AHANKAAR JITNE BHI MERE DURUGUN WAH > SAARE JALKAR SAMAAPT HO JAAYE, PHIR MAIN HAR KSHAN HAR PAL AAAPKE > SHREE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN SHISHYAVRAT BANKAR APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA > RAHOO. > > MERE AUR AAPKE KE IS PAAVAN PUNEET EVAM PAVITRA SAMBANDH KE BEECH > KABHI "AHANKAAR" KI DEEWAR NA KHADI HO. OOS AHANKAAR RUPI DEEWAR KO > AAP TOD DE, OOS AHANAKAAR ROOPI RAKSHAS KO AAP JALAKR BHASMA KAR DE. > > DIR PRATIDIN EK ACHCHA INSAAN BAN SAKU, HANUMANJI KI TARAH PARAM > GURUBHAKAT BANU AUR AAPKE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA > RAHU. > > PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE START SERIOUSLY WATCHING SOME HISTORIC SHBIR CD > ROMS AGAIN & AGAIN WHEREIN YOU WILL KNOW YOU ARE THE DISCIPLE OF > THE "MOST" POWERFUL SADGURUDEV IN THIS UNIVERSE. > > Sadgurudev ki jai. > > Gurusevak, > > Manoj Gilda. > > > > > --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, "mohanraaam" > > > > Jai Gurudev > > > > Dear All: > > > > Pandit R.DAKSHINAMOORTHIJI - the ace astrologer and remedial > > consultant from Chennai taught me this mantra to control > destructive > > anger (I am currently a yogi (85 years old, former Army officer) > but > > in the initial stages of my sadhana I used to distracted by > > uncontrollable temper and was losing sadhana energy unnecessarily > > and contacted Panditji for a remedy): > > > > "Om Shaante Prashaante sarva kroddha prashamani swaaha" 21 times > > when you feel angry. > > > > If you immerse your ring finger in water and chant this mantra for > > 21 times early in the morning and drink the water and sprinkle a > > little of it on your head, you will be able to manage your anger > > better. Also this will help you to ward off the dangers arising > out > > of Divine Wrath which might have been consciously or unconsciously > > provoked. > > > > I just thought I will share this information with Gurubhais here. > > > > Best wishes. > > > > --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, Chander D > > > > > > Jai Gurudev > > > > > > Dear All, > > > > > > One thing that i would like to tell you all after reading this > > email, Gurudev had once said, that anger in a person is good, but > > that anger if channelised into creative energy, will take the > person > > on a super fast path to success, progress happens only then. > > > > > > Best Regards > > > Chander > > > > > > > > > ----- Original Message ---- > > > From: "padmahiraskar69@" > > > To: gayatri pariwar > > hyderabad > > > > shivaya > > > > rajeeshneemkar@; iamthehappiness@ > > > Sent: Wednesday, 21 February, 2007 5:38:05 PM > > > Subject: [issplist] how to conquer anger? > > > > > > There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a > > bag > > > of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to > > hammer a > > > nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 > nails > > > into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it > was > > > easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. > > > Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at > all. > > He > > > told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy > now > > > pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his > > temper. > > > The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his > > father > > > that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the > hand > > and > > > led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but > > look > > > at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. > When > > you > > > say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. > > > > > > You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter > how > > > many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. > > > > > > A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very > > rare > > > jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. > > They > > > lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want > to > > > open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. > Dont > > > kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. > > Imagine > > > how many friends you have already lost because of little things. > > > > > > ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you > > misuse > > > it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper > > > management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is > to > > > harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the > cause > > of > > > your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with > > anger. > > > Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to > > > others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties > > to > > > whom you blame. > > > > > > How to deal with Anger > > > > > > The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. > > Should > > > we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to > use > > > that extra fuel created by energy to do something more > creative ? > > > > > > Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep > down > > in > > > your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living > > volcano, > > > you will for sure think several times. > > > > > > Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow > > and > > > guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? > > > > > > The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully > you > > > will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava > > will > > > keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep > hurting > > you > > > for days. > > > > > > While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire > of > > > repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has > > > finally flown away, drained out. > > > > > > The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the > calculation > > of > > > damage we have done to ourselves. > > > > > > In all this process, you will notice that, the person who > provoked > > > you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. > > > > > > WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. > > > > > > WHO PAYS for the anger? > > > > > > If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, > it > > > would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is > not > > > made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - > an > > > intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. > > > > > > Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger > > can > > > take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out > of > > us. > > > In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of > > your > > > life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with > > anger, > > > many people will have lost many years already. Do your > calculation > > > now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. > > > > > > Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has > > any > > > shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake > like > > > phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in > > your > > > body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in > reality > > > drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy > > which > > > is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and > > exercise > > > you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy > again. > > It > > > does work. > > > > > > So we do lose a lot by anger? > > > > > > Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually > > diminishing > > > our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration > and > > > stay on this planet with our present name. > > > > > > How do we deal with it? > > > > > > First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you > angry, > > > what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in > which > > > way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the > > > reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. > > > > > > Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above > > > practice of quick analysis. > > > > > > Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by > > > letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. > > > Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain > > > fraction of LIFE. > > > > > > If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to > lose > > 40% > > > of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously > the > > > causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are > losing > > > much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is > > divine > > > and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE > > > itself. > > > > > > You will never get back that lost essential life energy. > REMEMBER! > > We > > > are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. > > > > > > If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these > > friends. > > > If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is > > > unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be > a > > > victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually > > just > > > to keep their ego uninflated. > > > > > > If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people > or > > > change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend > their > > > ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. > > > > > > DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you > > upset. > > > JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME > > there > > > are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is > > always > > > a way out..... > > > > > > Change yourself and save yourself. > > > padma > > > > > > > > > 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time > > > with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ ________ > > > Yahoo! India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new > > > http://in.answers.yahoo.com/ > > > > > > > > > > > Jay Gurudev > > > > > Yahoo! Groups - Join or create groups, clubs, forums & communities. > Links > > > > > -- Regards, Saravana Kumar |
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Re: how to conquer anger?
Dear Gurubhai: I would not have contacted Panditji if Gurudev had not come in my dream and directed me to him when I was stumbling in my sadhana. It was on Gurudev's guidance only. Kindly do not use insulting words against such a Pandit (you had used words like dhongi, etc.) to whom our own Gurudev directed me. Guru's Grace comes in thousand forms and we are nobody to judge how Gurudev Nikhileshwaranandji should help us; Our duty as disciples is to just follow Guru's guidance be it in dream or in actual manifestation. Mysterious are the ways of our Gurudev. You are probably too young and immature to understand these yogic nuances. Our respect for our own Guru should not impel us to disrespect other Gurus which is very much against the tenets of shastra which we are all following. I reiterate, I would not have gone to Panditji if Gurudev's guidnace had not come to me; and the mantra given is also a very ancient one and a similar mantra is found in Raavana Samhita (Panditji only drew my attention to it). Blessings to you. Mohanraaam May Gurudev guide you appropriately.--- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, "manojgilda" > > Jai Gurudev, > > THIS FORUM IS ONLY FOR THE FOLLOWERS OF SIDDHASHRAM SADHAK PARIVAR. > HERE EVERY MANTRA, EVERY TANTRA & EVERY YANTRA HAS TO BE NECESSARILY > FOLLOWED FROM SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILESHWARANAND'S OWN > WORDS. > > SECONDLY, THIS IS TREQUEST TO ALL GURUBHAIS THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF > SADHANAS FROM PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV FOR EACH & EVERY PROBLEM OF LIFE. > TIME & AGAIN THIS HAS PROVED THAT ALL THE SADHANAS GIVEN BY > SIDDHASHRAM GURUDHAM JODHPUR & NEW DELHI ARE 100% TRUE & ONE CAN > ACHIEVE THE DESIRED RESULTS AFTER PERFORMING THESE SADHANAS. > > THIS IS MY SOLEMN REQUEST THAT WHATEVER SADHANS & MANTRA WHICH A > GURUBHAI NEEDS FOR A SPECIFIC PROBLEM HAS TO BE NECESSARLI BE FROM > SADGURUDEV. > > IF STILL WE HAVE NOT UNDERSTOOD OUR SADGURUDEV & KEEP ON TALKING > ABOUT FATE, DESTINY, STARS, ASTROLOGY, JANMA KUNDALI THEN SHAME ON > US. > > REMEMBER THAT NO ONE IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE IS AS POWERFUL AS > SADGURUDEV PARAMHANS SWAMI NIKHILSEHWARANANAD. > > PLEASE REMEMEBR IT IS OUR OWN WEAKNESS IN LIFE THAT WE ARE NOT > GETTING THE DESIRED RESULTS IN OUR SADHANAS. > > PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT BALME OUR GURU PARIVAR FOR OUR SUCCESS & HAVE > SOME SHAME BEFORE YOU GO & REFER OTHER DHONGI & PAKHANDI GURUS. > > EVERY MANTRA, TANTRA & YANTRA EXISTING IN INDIA DEFINITELY HAS ITS > ROOTS RELATED TO SADGURUDEV'S KNOWLEDGE. > > SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOLLOW YOUR OWN SADGURUDEV. > > JUST IMAGINE PEOPLE SAY THEY DON'T HAVE TIME & I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE > TO ATTEND 14 ODD SHIBIRS IN PUNE, MUMBAI, VAPI, KURIKSHETRA, JODHPUR > & YAVATMAL DURING THE LAST 15 MONTHS, WITHOUT NEGELCTING MY DUTIES & > JOB. > > SO PLEASE AWAKE, BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. > > YOU NEVER KNOW WHETHER YOU WILL GET ONCE CHANCE IN NEXT LIFE TO > BECOME A DISCIPLE OF PUJYAPAAD SADGURUDEV. > > WHATEVER YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE ACXHIEVE IT RIGHT AWAY, TIME IS RUNNING > OUT. > > IF YOU WERE TO ACHEIVE SUCCESS IN LIFE WITH YOUR OWN STRENGTHS & > POWERS FROM WHAT EVER SO CALLED SOURCES WHICH YOU DERIVE FROM YOU > WOULD HAVE BEEN A SUCCESSFUL PERSON. > > BUT, NO WE AE HELPLESS WE JUST CANNOT ACHIEVE ANYTHING WITHOUT > SADGURUDEV'S KRUPA. > > ISI LIYE HAR KSHAN YEH PRARTHANA KARE " HEY SADGURUDEV MAIN AAPKA > SHISHYA NIKHIL GOTRI, JAANE ANJAANE PEECHLE KAI KAI JANMO SE MERE > HATHON SE KAI PAAP, DUSHKARMA, GUNAAH KIYE HAI, ISI JANMA MEIN KIYE > HAIN AUR MERE HATHO ISI JANMA MEIN HO RAHE HAI. > > AAP SE KEWAL YEHI PRARTHANA KI MERE HRIDAY, ANTARATMA,ANTARMAN, > SHARIR KE EK EK ANG, ROMM ROMM, RAKT KE EK EK KAN SE KAAM, KRODH, > LOBH, MOH, MAYA, RAAG, DWESH, AHANKAAR JITNE BHI MERE DURUGUN WAH > SAARE JALKAR SAMAAPT HO JAAYE, PHIR MAIN HAR KSHAN HAR PAL AAAPKE > SHREE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN SHISHYAVRAT BANKAR APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA > RAHOO. > > MERE AUR AAPKE KE IS PAAVAN PUNEET EVAM PAVITRA SAMBANDH KE BEECH > KABHI "AHANKAAR" KI DEEWAR NA KHADI HO. OOS AHANKAAR RUPI DEEWAR KO > AAP TOD DE, OOS AHANAKAAR ROOPI RAKSHAS KO AAP JALAKR BHASMA KAR DE. > > DIR PRATIDIN EK ACHCHA INSAAN BAN SAKU, HANUMANJI KI TARAH PARAM > GURUBHAKAT BANU AUR AAPKE CHARAN KAMAL MEIN APNI SEWAYE ARPAN KARTA > RAHU. > > PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE START SERIOUSLY WATCHING SOME HISTORIC SHBIR CD > ROMS AGAIN & AGAIN WHEREIN YOU WILL KNOW YOU ARE THE DISCIPLE OF > THE "MOST" POWERFUL SADGURUDEV IN THIS UNIVERSE. > > Sadgurudev ki jai. > > Gurusevak, > > Manoj Gilda. > > > > > --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, "mohanraaam" > > > > Jai Gurudev > > > > Dear All: > > > > Pandit R.DAKSHINAMOORTHIJI - the ace astrologer and remedial > > consultant from Chennai taught me this mantra to control > destructive > > anger (I am currently a yogi (85 years old, former Army officer) > but > > in the initial stages of my sadhana I used to distracted by > > uncontrollable temper and was losing sadhana energy unnecessarily > > and contacted Panditji for a remedy): > > > > "Om Shaante Prashaante sarva kroddha prashamani swaaha" 21 times > > when you feel angry. > > > > If you immerse your ring finger in water and chant this mantra for > > 21 times early in the morning and drink the water and sprinkle a > > little of it on your head, you will be able to manage your anger > > better. Also this will help you to ward off the dangers arising > out > > of Divine Wrath which might have been consciously or unconsciously > > provoked. > > > > I just thought I will share this information with Gurubhais here. > > > > Best wishes. > > > > --- In issplist (AT) yahoogroups (DOT) com, Chander D > > > > > > Jai Gurudev > > > > > > Dear All, > > > > > > One thing that i would like to tell you all after reading this > > email, Gurudev had once said, that anger in a person is good, but > > that anger if channelised into creative energy, will take the > person > > on a super fast path to success, progress happens only then. > > > > > > Best Regards > > > Chander > > > > > > > > > ----- Original Message ---- > > > From: "padmahiraskar69@" > > > To: gayatri pariwar > > hyderabad > > > > shivaya > > > > rajeeshneemkar@; iamthehappiness@ > > > Sent: Wednesday, 21 February, 2007 5:38:05 PM > > > Subject: [issplist] how to conquer anger? > > > > > > There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a > > bag > > > of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to > > hammer a > > > nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 > nails > > > into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it > was > > > easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. > > > Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at > all. > > He > > > told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy > now > > > pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his > > temper. > > > The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his > > father > > > that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the > hand > > and > > > led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but > > look > > > at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. > When > > you > > > say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. > > > > > > You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter > how > > > many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. > > > > > > A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very > > rare > > > jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. > > They > > > lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want > to > > > open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. > Dont > > > kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. > > Imagine > > > how many friends you have already lost because of little things. > > > > > > ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you > > misuse > > > it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper > > > management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is > to > > > harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the > cause > > of > > > your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with > > anger. > > > Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to > > > others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties > > to > > > whom you blame. > > > > > > How to deal with Anger > > > > > > The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. > > Should > > > we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to > use > > > that extra fuel created by energy to do something more > creative ? > > > > > > Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep > down > > in > > > your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living > > volcano, > > > you will for sure think several times. > > > > > > Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow > > and > > > guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? > > > > > > The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully > you > > > will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava > > will > > > keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep > hurting > > you > > > for days. > > > > > > While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire > of > > > repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has > > > finally flown away, drained out. > > > > > > The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the > calculation > > of > > > damage we have done to ourselves. > > > > > > In all this process, you will notice that, the person who > provoked > > > you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. > > > > > > WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. > > > > > > WHO PAYS for the anger? > > > > > > If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, > it > > > would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is > not > > > made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - > an > > > intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. > > > > > > Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger > > can > > > take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out > of > > us. > > > In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of > > your > > > life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with > > anger, > > > many people will have lost many years already. Do your > calculation > > > now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. > > > > > > Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has > > any > > > shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake > like > > > phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in > > your > > > body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in > reality > > > drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy > > which > > > is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and > > exercise > > > you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy > again. > > It > > > does work. > > > > > > So we do lose a lot by anger? > > > > > > Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually > > diminishing > > > our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration > and > > > stay on this planet with our present name. > > > > > > How do we deal with it? > > > > > > First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you > angry, > > > what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in > which > > > way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the > > > reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. > > > > > > Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above > > > practice of quick analysis. > > > > > > Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by > > > letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. > > > Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain > > > fraction of LIFE. > > > > > > If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to > lose > > 40% > > > of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously > the > > > causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are > losing > > > much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is > > divine > > > and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE > > > itself. > > > > > > You will never get back that lost essential life energy. > REMEMBER! > > We > > > are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. > > > > > > If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these > > friends. > > > If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is > > > unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be > a > > > victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually > > just > > > to keep their ego uninflated. > > > > > > If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people > or > > > change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend > their > > > ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. > > > > > > DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you > > upset. > > > JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME > > there > > > are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is > > always > > > a way out..... > > > > > > Change yourself and save yourself. > > > padma > > > > > > > > > 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time > > > with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ ________ > > > Yahoo! India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new > > > http://in.answers.yahoo.com/ > > > > > > |
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