SHARM - I wish your problem was as easy! I really felt for you because when
I first started practicing KY I too had a broken heart that I'd been trying
to mend for a couple of years. The truth is, when you REALLY marry somebody
then something very profound happens. This is not easily undone. Nobody
can break those bonds for you, you must do it for yourself. Even
afterwards, you may have pangs for this person, that's ok. Please allow me
to recommend the Smiling Buddha Meditation and the Meditation for Gurprasad
on pages 133 and 145 respectively in Transitions to a Heart Centered World.
If nothing else, these 2 meditations should help you get a bit "above" your
situation so that you can see it more clearly. And remember, your love was
never "wasted".
Sat Nam, Leo