Sex or Celibacy? - Page 2

08-22-2001, 04:30 PM

Theoretically this is supposed to be the case. YB once stated this was so also,
and was the only way to avoid losing energy during ejaculation.
However, I tried a number of Bhuddist and Taoist and Tantric methods of doing
this and although I was able to create a lot of bliss recirculating
the energy, I still felt an energy drain from ejaculation. Si I,m wondering if
it really is possible.

Seva Simran

Gururattan K.Khalsa wrote:

> Dear Dharam Singh and all,
>
> If I can transmute the energy I deserve my orgasm. Having a loving
> experience of the energy where it moves my emotions and circulates
> throughout my body and being is a rich experience. I need to do that before
> I lose my seed because with each orgasm a man loses his drive
>
> The ojas is the sexual energy that goes up the spine, but the semem doesn't
> go up the spine. If a man raises his energy and circulates it as you
> explained and then ejaculates, does he lose less energy? I have never read
> an answer to this one. Any men have any insights based on experience?
>
> Sat Nam,
>
> Gururattan Kaur
>
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08-22-2001, 04:33 PM

Yes, this is possible. I have found that you have to play with the energy a lot
to master this technique but it is possible for a man to have an
orgasm without ejaculation and without causing inflammation, which is unhealthy.

Seva Simran

s.cohen wrote:

> littlebird108 wrote:
> >. So if a man and woman were together having
> > sex it
> > would be ideal for the woman to have many orgasms (which I read in the
> > marriage manual) and for the man to ejaculate as little as possible.
> > Is
> > that a double standard or what?
>
> A man can have an orgasm without ejaculating, in this way he can please
> his partner, have a good time, and preserve the energy.
>
> shoshana
>
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08-22-2001, 05:49 PM

Sex can be used to "solve loneliness". It does make the world go round. In a
relationship that is on shaky ground it can give a couple reason to
come together and maybe try to work things out (God put that many nerves and
neurons in one anatomical location for a reason).
To try to answer the question of whether or not a man gains energy I will make a
comparison. A study was done of College basketball players. They
found that the testosterone level of the winners actually went up after the game
while that of the losers went down. They were pumped and felt
good about themselves. Feeling capable is important for the male. Yogiji teaches
that sex and success are the same. "It's the same psychology" he
says. "Without finance, there is no romance".
If there is a real sharing and intimacy around the sexual experience, the pranic
body just opens up. I think that even though a man loses his
seed, the energy that is moved and integrated, Ojas, gives him a more rich and
subtle experience of himself. This little victory will make him a
more confident, intuitive basketball player. It might be true that he may not
have as much brute strength but he'll have his wits, and much more,
about him.
I hope that helps.
Sat Nam,
Dharam

"Gururattan K.Khalsa" wrote:

> Dear Dharam Singh and all,
>
> If I can transmute the energy I deserve my orgasm. Having a loving
> experience of the energy where it moves my emotions and circulates
> throughout my body and being is a rich experience. I need to do that before
> I lose my seed because with each orgasm a man loses his drive
>
> The ojas is the sexual energy that goes up the spine, but the semem doesn't
> go up the spine. If a man raises his energy and circulates it as you
> explained and then ejaculates, does he lose less energy? I have never read
> an answer to this one. Any men have any insights based on experience?
>
> Sat Nam,
>
> Gururattan Kaur
>
>
> "OUR DESTINY IS TO BE HAPPY"
> - Yogi Bhajan
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08-22-2001, 06:02 PM

Thanks for the recommendation. You're right, you really want to maintain a
practice so that you never really feel pressed up against a wall by the
energy. I will take a look at "Raise Kundalini in Quick Order". Maybe even lead
it in Sadhana, 4 hours from now. I am pretty convinced that we
have all we need right under this umbrella called Kundalini Yoga.
I did go looking and I couldn't find "Tao of Sexuality" at Amazon.
Sat Nam,
Dharam

"Gururattan K.Khalsa" wrote:

> Dear All,
>
> Dharam Singh, thanks for sharing your experience with the "silver bullet" in
> the Guraka Kriya page 41 in Sexuality and Sprituality. What is your
> experience with chair or table pose that is on page 28 first exercise? This
> works for both men and women to raise the sexual energy. I would also
> suggest doing this exercise 2-3 times a day on a regular basis. ( not just
> when sexuality energy is out of balance) This is part of a set called
> "Raise Kundalini in Quick Order" which is a very powerful set.
>
> When both men and women can open all their chakras it is possible to have
> very satisfying orgasmic experiences in the whole spine during sex, which
> precludes the need for orgasim in a man and deepens them for women.
>
> I find that the Taoist books explanations are good. There is a good book by
> in think Steven Chen called the Tao of Sexuality which is bound in white
> leather. (call a local new age bookstore) The practice of KY actually makes
> it possible to do that the taoist say to do. The taoists generally suggest
> moving the energy through mental concentration and the root lock. KY
> physically shifts the energy.
>
> We have assembled the best sets for this in our book "Sexuality and
> Spirituality" available at www.yogatech.com. There are also partner
> exercises to balance male-female energies. For anyone wanting to work with
> their sexuality energy, start doing the sets and meditations in this book
> there are over 100 to choose from) and watch your life transform.
> And then share with all of us.
>
> Sat Nam,
>
> Gururattan Kaur
>
>
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> - Yogi Bhajan
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08-22-2001, 06:35 PM

I don't mean to be picky, but on the subject of hysteria - just a matter of
curiosity - hysterectomies used to be common practice in dealing with
hysteria, which was considered a female disease since antiquity. In the
1890's Freud became the first western doctor to assert that hysteria could
occur also in men, debunking the old conceptions of the disease. He related
it primarily to male impotence, and only secondarily to the unsatisfied
state of these mens' wives.

The ultimate cause of hysteria, so Freud discovered, was memory loss. Which
sounds kind of hokey, but once again, the amnesias he lifted (with a
resultant lifting of hysterical symptoms, which ranged from hallucinations
to nighttime emissions to vomiting attacks and bulemia) usually related to
sexual issues not adequately processed during childhood.

This is sort of a specialty of mine, dont mean to go completely off on a
tangent.

Sat Nam,
-thomas

----- Original Message -----
From: "Dharam Singh"
To:
Sent: Wednesday, August 22, 2001 11:48 AM
Subject: Re: [Kundaliniyoga] Sex or Celibacy?

> Thanks for the insight
> They used to call that "Hysteria". (roots similar to Hysterectomy) A woman
would be sent to the doctor to cure her. The doctor would used a
> vibrator of some sort to make things "right".
> I know nothing more about this practice but am very curious.
> Dharam (Mars in Taurus)
>
>
>
> TiArLa@... wrote:
>
> > I don't think men realize how painful it is for women - because men are
"out
> > there" they can at least touch themselves but a woman's desire is to be
> > penetrated and the anguish when that doesn't happen is more then some
women
> > can bear.
> >
> > Peace
> >
> >
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> > - Yogi Bhajan
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08-22-2001, 10:29 PM

Thanks for the reply!
I didn't have access to the marriage manuals.Could you ,please, send me via
email some exercises?
Thank you in advance for your further help!
Blessings and Lots-of-Love,
Dennis
----- Original Message -----
From: "Dharam Singh"
To:
Sent: Wednesday, August 22, 2001 7:12 AM
Subject: Re: [Kundaliniyoga] Sex or Celibacy?

> As a man, and as a former young man, I can relate. What helps a great deal
these days are certain exercises for male potency. They are in the marriage
> manuals, the second volume. Maybe you have access, if not, let me know.
Basically, my brother, when our nervous system gets overloaded by our sexual
drive and
> our mind starts runnin' off, we're sunk. What these exercises do is lessen
the tensions and tightnesses in our hips, back and chest. and allow an
easier
> flowing of that energy through our system. This is really wild stuff. You
can get so completely ripped on this if you can just ride the tiger. Another
> technique is to simply not scratch the itch. Try simply breathing, not
reacting and allowing the "feeling" to become a total body experience. Just
feel
> completely and utterly horny as a "box of rabbits". Enjoy it, let it merge
with every point in the cosmos, if you want to go that far. Smile, breath
and close
> your eyes. It's a weakness in the nervous system that doesn't allow us to
consider other possibilities rather than the same old, same old.
> Dharam,
> P.S. Pulling the pud creates a pressure in the gray matter of the brain.
Yogiji teaches that there must be another person there to "absorb" the
energy. He
> goes so far as to say it is better to be with another man than to
masturbate.
>
> Dennis Vourtsis wrote:
>
> > Dear Gururattan K.Khalsa
> > Men need to learn to reduce loss of semen. Depends on the age.
> > I am a young man.How should I learn the loss of semen?
> > What is more,it there any good exercise I can use tto stop the habit of
masturbation?I do it almost evry day and I REALLY can not resist the
temtation!:-(
> > Thank you in advance fr your help.
> > Blessings and Lots-of-Love,
> > Dennis
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "Gururattan K.Khalsa"
> > To:
> > Sent: Tuesday, August 21, 2001 10:30 PM
> > Subject: Re: [Kundaliniyoga] Sex or Celibacy?
> >
> > > Dear Steve,
> > >
> > > The short answer is sex not celebacy. Your questions are good and the
full
> > > treatment would require a book. Not a bad idea.
> > >
> > > KY is one of the few yogic paths that allows sex. Many of the hatha
paths
> > > require celebacy.
> > >
> > >
> > > > I don't see too much info on this but I am wondering how important
> > > > is it to abstain from sex for the kundalini to rise. Or will it rise
> > > anyhow if you are doing KY daily?
> > >
> > > The question is how you use your kundalini energy which is also
related to
> > > sexual energy. You can actually facilitate the rising of the
kundalini
> > > during sex if you use rootlock to raise the energy to the higher
chakras.
> > >
> > > Should sex be limited to a certain length of time and/or to once a
week,
> > > month or year?
> > >
> > > Yogi Bhajan has said that if we really did sex right and both partners
> > > raised their energy, we would be satisfied for several weeks.
> > >
> > > I also read somewhere that if you don't climax that it could actually
> > > ASSIST in raising the kundalini.
> > >
> > > This is true. The taoist books are good references on this.
> > >
> > > And is masturbation worse or equal to sex with another in
> > > > terms of dissapating the energies (or any other reasons)?
> > >
> > > The male-female energies do not get balanced.
> > >
> > > Most of us heard that masturbation was wrong from childhood I think.
Maybe
> > > it is. If it is I would like to know why.
> > >
> > > It is not that it is wrong. Lost of semen for a man dissipates energy
that
> > > takes about 2 days to replace.
> > >
> > > I also heard that having sex can unblock the lower chakras so that
could be
> > > a good thing, right?
> > >
> > > Yes.
> > > >
> > > > Clearly, sexual energy is a powerful force so I would like to know
more
> > > about using it wisely.
> > >
> > > Men need to learn to reduce loss of semen. Depends on the age. Yogi
Bhajan
> > > does not recommend as do the taoists that men never ejaculate. YB says
that
> > > this practice can cause problems in the prostrate.
> > >
> > > Is there anything two people can to
> > > > together during sex to raise and/or enhance the raising of the
kundalini?
> > >
> > > Yes. Use rootlock and breathing.
> > >
> > > Also, what does YB say about all of this? What do other
> > > > readers think/do about it? Often the sexual urge is just so
annoying
> > > > because it demands to be released and stays on your mind until it
is.
> > >
> > > Sat kriya and chair pose are for this. This is why we do KY, to
channel or
> > > energy upward.
> > >
> > > Is it better to try and resist that or just give in and get it
> > > > over with so that your mind is free to move on to other things?
> > >
> > > Do KY and overtime your energy will rise.
> > >
> > > Do you think men have more of a problem with this than women?
> > >
> > > Men and women work completely differently. Women do not lose energy in
> > > orgasm. They relax and expand and get in a better mood.
> > >
> > >
> > > > Maybe some people are challenged more by this than others. I have
> > > > heard that people with Mars in a fire sign have stronger and more
> > > consistant sexual impulses. I do not know if that is true but I do
have a
> > > friend with Mars in Virgo who says he is not really interested in
having
> > > sex very often at all.
> > >
> > > These generalizations are often true.
> > >
> > > There are some couples on the list that can offer more information I
am
> > > sure.
> > >
> > > Sat Nam,
> > >
> > > Gururattan Kaur
> > >
> > >
> > > "OUR DESTINY IS TO BE HAPPY"
> > > - Yogi Bhajan
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08-23-2001, 12:23 PM

Dear Dharam Singh,

I will take a look at "Raise Kundalini in Quick Order". Maybe even lead it
in Sadhana,

Let us know what you experience. One can get hooked on this set.

>I am pretty convinced that we have all we need right under this umbrella
called Kundalini Yoga.

The resources are vast.

> I did go looking and I couldn't find "Tao of Sexuality" at Amazon.

Try somewhere else. I read the two books by Matak Chia (sp sorry) about
male and female sexuality and integrated some of the basic concepts in my
book "Sexuality and Sprituality." But as I said, to actually be able to do
this stuff, KY is the best I have found. BTW I don't have the books with me
or I would give better references.

Sat Nam,

Gururattan Kaur

08-23-2001, 12:35 PM

Dear Seva Simran,

> Theoretically this is supposed to be the case. YB once stated this was so
also, and was the only way to avoid losing energy during ejaculation.
> However, I tried a number of Bhuddist and Taoist and Tantric methods of
doing this and although I was able to create a lot of bliss recirculating
> the energy, I still felt an energy drain from ejaculation. Si I,m
wondering if it really is possible.

Thanks for your feed back.
So far I haven't found any man who says it is possible, but I haven't asked
that many. I asked a man 51 who does these practices (started out after
learning KY) how often a man should ejaculate and he said never. He feels
much stronger when he can contain and circulate his energy. In fact he feel
fabulous.

Sat Nam.,

Gururattan Kaur

08-25-2001, 08:17 AM

Dear Seva Singh,

Thanks for sharing is technique of working with the subtle body.

> The best techniques I discovered is where you hold the awareness of your
subtle body and the energy nature of all the different feelings and if you
> keep your consciousness completely on the subtle body, and not the
physical, it just happens. No inflammation. No physical ejaculation.

> I don't think it is accessible as a practice
> for most people. I had a lot of experience with energy and a variety of
teachings before I could do this.

I would say it is not accessible without practice. Anyone can cultivate
this if they patiently practice and take the time to be mindful, silent and
still, yet aware, awake and present.

It is well known that our physical and subtle bodies are just different
dimensions of our being. Those working with energy often change our subtle
body to impact our physical body. Your example is a great testimonial that
we can do this ourselves.

It is often recommended to begin by focusing our attention on the our
physical sensations. This brings us into our bodies, cultivates presence,
attunes us to our emotional energy and grounds us. When we can maintain
this physical emotional awareness, (without words, nonverbally) we have a
solid basis for cultivating subtle awareness in our subtle bodies. In fact
it can even be automatic or atleast a next step in awareness development.

I think the book John mentioned is a different one but it sounds even better
if it shows the integration of KY and Taoist techniques.

I want to thank all you men for so honestly sharing with all of us and hope
you will continue to do so. I firmly believe that as men spiritualize their
relationship to sexual energy, the world will change from war to peace. We
will all be happier and we will have more fun.

Sat Nam,

Gururattan Kaur

passionate_freak · 09-11-2007, 10:52 PM

Hmm,

We are with lotta misconceptions regarding Kundalini. It's not important whether KY or any other allows SEX or not but what is imporant is how many of KY people with indulgence in sex have raised the Kundalini ???

Lemme tell you my own experience... i missed my Kundalini because of the NIGHT FALLs...

And how many of people who have sex are able to establish the relation to Kundalini during sex ??? It's total nonsense. THe technique is not a chocolate. This a high order Tantric techniqe to make a upsurge of Kundalini during sex. Osho has talked about it. Still it's not that easy as he has told. Kundalini is far more vast than the human mind can contemplate.IT's not mere talking like Osho and too many of westerns and eastern writers do.
So-called Kundalini masters and the books have created a clouds of misconceptions and the confusions. I demand to show any of your masters with Kundalini awakening...CELEBACY is the most needed thing if anyone is eager awakening the Kundalini.

When NIGHT FALL causes the halt in the Kundalini how come a complete SEX ( masturbation too) will help your KUNDALINI ???

And, I bet nobody is with the Perfect GURU with The Sahashrara Awakening...there's only one in the whole world.

Awakening of Sahashrara...well even the Mulashara... is not easy.
The easiest way to awake it to find out a Perfect Guru who with the blessings will make the upsurge of the force.

Among triliions of people only few thousands think of the Kundalini...and only a few hundered remains in practice.. and only few 1 0r two people can awke the Sahashrara.
Even the third eye awakening ...oh man.... it's awsome.

And I know few people with third eye and few others are with some lower.

THE MOST NEEDED THING IS A CAPABLE GURU.

and no people with Kundalini awakeing will claim they are with the force, they will remain silent.

Be aware and try finding a true Guru if you are really true to yourself.
And don't get misled by so-called Gurus and the stuffs in the internet and the books.
If the books were with help then every single person with book would have been with it.

there's a sayin: Stop reading health books. You may die of misprints.

regards
PF

passionate_freak · 09-11-2007, 11:01 PM

And,

Celebacy is equally important to male and female. I dunno the orgasm but celebacy is equally important.

passionate_freak · 09-11-2007, 11:07 PM

I will take a look at "Raise Kundalini in Quick Order". Maybe even lead it
in Sadhana,

well how quick is quick ???

If one is with capable Guru, with his/her blessings it will take no time. But bet, the writer with the theories only. Well, the experiences a whole lotta people including people in here and many writers including this one has the misconceptions and is of projection of mind than the upsurging of the Kundalini. Kundalini works real different....

Dare to come with a pure heart...and you'll be with real GURU.

reards

moksh · 10-17-2007, 08:19 AM

hey when ever you feel like masturbating then just take a 3-4 deep breaths and take an afiirmation that celibacy is the best policy.well it worked for me . but this things are easy to control what hard ios night fall ans wet dream cauze its beyond your thresshold of consciousness and it happen when you are unconscious

AdamWest · 11-30-2007, 10:32 PM

I too have wondered abut this question for many years and have experiemented with different traditions. I have found celibacy in combination with Sadhana is the most affective practice.

Adam.

KirtiKaur · 02-05-2008, 05:27 PM

"Men and women work completely differently. Women do not lose energy in
orgasm. They relax and expand and get in a better mood."

Sat Nam and Respect Gururattan Kaur,
May I first say quickly that I love you! Your books are fabulous and I use them all the time. Thank you! Also, I am new to the forum, hi!, and I am excited to have this as a resource.... okay, my post:

The sentance above is yours, and I wanted to ask you about it. In your book Sexuality and Spirituality it mentions that women ought to do certain exercises (like bundle rolls) after sex to boost their electromagnetic field. So does the electro-magnetic field get weakened or depleted by sex? I have a client who asked for help in acheiveing orgasm. Is there a set in particular you really like? I have most of your books so a reference and page number will suffice. Thank you for your time and expertise!

Many blessings,