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Samir Shah
 
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Default Some advice please - marriage problems - 03-14-2005, 06:06 PM

|| Om Namah Shivaaya ||
Dear list members, Namaskar,
I have attached the charts of two people - a mother and child, who are
having some problems at the moment. I would be grateful if you
could suggest what may help them.
First the mother. Her marriage is going through a rough
period. She and her husband (with their two children - aged 4 and
5) recently moved out of his parent's house to live in a separate flat
(in the same town), because there were disputes at home. Her
mother-in-law seems to have had a lot to do with it. Meanwhile she
suspected her husband of seeing other women... Having
moved home, things are not much better and the marriage seems on the
verge of collapse.
My amateur analysis is as follows: 2nd from UL is lorded by a
debilitated, combust Jupiter placed in Lagna in an enemy's sign,
rendering him very weak despite directional strength. Jupiter is
also AK. He is joined the Sun who is also weak, and
Venus. This does not bode well for sustenance of the
marriage. Further, Rahu is in the 12th house, and will oppose
Jupiter (and also the Sun, whose effects will be felt due to
combustion). Pisces is also aspected by Rahu, Ketu and (retrograde)
Saturn (can this indicate infidelity from the husband?). I
cannot see how the mother-in-law's involvement in all this is shown in
the chart (perhaps she isn't involved, only appears to be?). There
is no benefic aspect on Pisces that could provide a solution. The
only benefic association I think is that of Venus joined Jupiter - but
then the two are bitter enemies. The problems have really flared up
during Ketu-Jupiter (Vimsottari).
She has been thinking of separation for a while now, but on the advice of
various people (and for the sake of the children) has not done anything
yet. What do the learned members suggest can help her? Should
she try to preserve the marriage?
Now for the (younger) child... in the last few weeks he has developed a
problem, whereby he keeps falling down for no reason... He's fine one
minute and all of a sudden he just tumbles the next. His
coordination is completely lacking, and his behaviour is very
"spaced-out". They have been to see various doctors with
no diagnosis, but he's been asked to have an EEG done (imagine a 5-year
old kid sitting stock steady for an hour!). I think the cause of
the problem is emotional - because of the turmoil related to the
marriage. Is there anything that can be done to help him?
Thank you,
With reverence to the Gurus,
Samir
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