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06-09-2009, 04:37 AM
Aum Gurubhyo Namah
namaste
dear shri.rajan
The softwares are worthless.
If you go through some of my earlier postings, you could easily
observe that i was always sceptical of horoscope matching as done
today. The matching proceedure continues be to the same for over a
century atleast. In the earlier days, the kuta matching was adequate
for the simple reason majority of the weaker sex were unemployed .
They were economically and socially forced to remain with whomever
they married. Hence it appears that such a matching is adequate
even now. Awareness and communication has since then improved,
we come to know of the marriage failures and divorce cases. Even
in the olden days divorce was there, but the percentage was less.
One real reason is that women have starting moving higher up both
in education and economy. This has certainly widened their freedom.
In such a scenario, many factors have come into play. One factor
that too often comes across is 'EGO'. We do not know which sex
really starts that , but it is the causuative factor for igniting the
first spark. Then comes the usual 'INLAWS' factor. The third one
is the breakage of marital 'DHARMA'. Some more factors come in for
final breakup.
The question now is , will the kuta matching give all informataions
about all the above things ? Ofcourse not, even if a plethora (a lot)
of matching principles are brought in. A sizable quantity of minds
are corrupt in one way or the other. How do you find a matching partner
for such a person ?
First, one should analyse the longevity factor. It is a ocean by itself.
If you go through some of the recent threads, you could notice it was
about the loss of partners. One thread starter posed a real question
as to why the longevity factor was overlooked ? How many of the
astrologers and learners like me are qualified to talk about the longeveity ?
The kuta matching is certainly not enough. matching of Lagna, Lagna lord,
upapada, strength of venus and jupiter etc should also be seen.
Apart from the above any break in upapada should be seen along with the
timing part.
The panchanga elements of both should be seen. Then comes the ghatak
principles to know about the differences between the couples.
Then the santana bhagya should be seen for progeny issues. The list goes
on like this. No single software is available for checking all these factors
for the simple reason that no astrologer is a programmer and no progreammer
is a complete astrologer. Possibly there may be a few who satisfy both,
but they are far away in sharing their knowledge with the community.
The reason could be because of certain vultures who are ready to make money
from the software !.
It is best to take charts of known married people and apply all these principles
and understand why such couples are leading a united life. Are they happy ?
or are they just pulling on ?
may mother bless all
sasisekaran.
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