@ kundaliniyogi

When vishnu took aavtar in human form - RAM. Even he had to go through lot of pain!
14 yr of vanvass & Sita aapharan etc etc
Even though he was a god, Pain & suffering is mandatory for human. its a part & parcel of life.

If you ask everything in one plate, this would never happen. You would never succeed in any of your asking!

Sadhak never finds a Guru! Guru find a true Sadhak/disciple.
Your question reflects the reason behind finding a guru is temp gains.

Reminder - this is a test phase of your life. You need to pass this!

Regards,
Dhruv Bhura