sorry i took so long to reply was very busy.
you dont have to do things dat are long and hard do somthing simple. i do work as well so i know what are saying when it comes to time. but if you wat to be bless with the goddess you need to fast for navratri without salt as well you should fast with out salt every friday you can eat but you should eat fruits . try this ok everyday get up offer devi jal or dhar then when you come home in the evening sing durga chalisa, offer ghee in havan with the 108 names of durga, and do jaap with mantra om dum durga namah. as for your children ill need to know there date of birth ok
sita ram