As i analysed i found that suffering was not during sleep even though there is the same surrounding environment. but suffering was known in the awakend state.which means that when there is ego there was pain.
That ego is often hurt ....when one realises that the root cause of pain is ego one tries to find a way where it doesn't hurt. that is when one reflects on true self.
Not all experiences take a person to the same path.....one standing near a window might watch the ground or the sky or could not be see either of it even with eyes open wide.
some experiences make a person to help others while some make one to avenge for their loss, some make one to live carelessly while some make one withdraw to self reflect.
what can i help others when i am in need of help. only if i am devoid of pain and suffering that i can make it go away for them!
unless i win over my ego which is the root cause of everything
there is no peace or happiness for me.
Thanks Bishadi ...its nice chatting with you!