Dear Ravikishore,

Do not get confused when I am explaining the concept of evil in a context of spiritual perspective. According to spiritual perspective, Being materialistic is evil and that is the only definition of evil. Because it will not allow you to be liberated. It will only be deeply immerse you in the material realm and bring you next birth next to that and next to that and so on in endless sequences of birth. This is evil and action from your part that givers you this result is sin.

By this definition of sin even if you get married to a girl by normal social ,convention - say a typical arrangerd marrage - it is a sin. Because You are leading a metrialistic life. Tour leading an animal existence surrendering to the animal instinct of sex and reproduction. You are not striving for liberation . You are not transcending your beastly nature.

You get it? Living the very materialistic nature immersed in ignorance and not seeking liberation is sin. If You lead that life style certainly it will bring you a next birth. If you are not renouncing the world it is a sin.

It has nothing to do with tantra. Even if you dont employ tantra and acquire a girl in a traditional sober socially sanctioned way it is still a sin.

Given the fact mejority of people do live that way and by all probability you could be one of them makes me not to preach to you to renounce. That is not you are made for and you will not listen to me. Hence my advise that it doesnot matter by what means you decided to lead a sinful life. Go conventional or use tantra it doesnot matter the aim is same. You decided to live a beastly life.

You must understand that I am not intimidating you . I Fully understand your state and once I was like you. Many in the world are like you. Hence my advice: there is no point in living in guilt. The purpose of guilt is reform. If you are giving up your ways and change your self then guilt is meaning bful. But if you donot iintent to give up and perpetuate your old ways then what is the point of suffering withn guilt ? you might as well live your choosen path happly isint it?

So I dint prech to you getting married it self is sin. I know you wont buy that. Your conflict iis not whether to get married or not to get married. Your conflict is whether to employ tantra or not, given your decision that you will get married. In this context I advised you that there is no sin in employing tantra. I still hold that, as tantra in it self is no evil thing . It is holy of the holiest. My last post would have given some idea about the true nature of tantra. It is about development of the self.

Having said all this now let me advise you a very practical thing. Let this advise be the final verson from my side Disregard all the previous advise of mine as it only gives you confusion to You. Here is my advise:

Do not employ tantra. Not because it is evil but because you have a conflict in your mind about it. You are guilty of it. That is why you keep seeking advise on it at the first place and thinking of all the atonement of doing worship or doing service latter in your life. It is all guilt driven there is no point to commit a mistake first and keep on feeling misserable through out your life, right?. You will never be able to live a peaceful and happy life latter, if you do what you contemplate now. Get it? Dont do it.

More over I am now sure about the person you are talking about - the one who you think is a tantric. I am sure now that he is not a tantric. He doesnot have any genune power. You might wonder how I know this. You mentioned elsewhere that he gave a demonstration on telipathy. It is no telipathy.It is a trick - Many good stage magicions are able to do this trick . Even you can do it- with out any telipathy . I cannot explain how that is done in this short forum. It requires long explanation. There are books on it. I have a copy. I know what he is doing. He is cheeting you. You will only wate your money.

I know how desperate you are feeling. You are willing to do anything to win the girl. And most probably you will not pay heed of my words and go ahesd and try everything. There is no harm in trying, provided you can offord the price . You will only learn from your experience that you are being cheeted on your vulnerability. And you will become wise latter from your own direct experience.

I am not pouring cold water on your burning hope. You will agree with me much latter, that I am right.

Regards,
K.Ravindran