om gurubhyo namah

namaste

dear shanti

your moon is with ketu and aspected by saturn.

you were born in a thithi ruled by moon.

moon is in wrong direction in dasamsa, a chart for profession.

you are running the dasa of venus, lord of 4th in navamsa

all these show the problems , as you have pointed.

above all your atmakaraka, the planet which influences your
soul is sun. sun can show authority and a tendency to rule
others. this can certainly strain the relationship.

you have to change your mental attitude.

pl chant the following after lighting a lamp. do it on a regular
basis and not with a tendency of bargain with the LORD.

1. om agnaye namah.. 324 times

2. om vinayakaaya namah.. 324 times

things are likely to change after june 2008.


may mother bless all

regards

sasisekaran
chennai.